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May’s Rare Blue Moon Is About to Expose Your Darkest Secrets

Did you know that May will see two—yes, two—full moons? That’s right: May’s second Full Moon, also known as the Blue Moon, will occur on...

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4 ‘Harmless’ Habits That Can Cost You Your Soulmate

When people settle into long-term relationships, many partners start to take their lovers for granted. They might fall into a routine, forgetting to...

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3 Signs You’re Trapped in a Trauma-Bonded Relationship

The term “trauma bond” has been thrown around carelessly over the past few years, becoming a buzzword of sorts. However, despite what many...

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6 Signs Your Partner Secretly Hates Your Guts (From Someone Who’s Been There)

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who couldn’t care less whether you lived or died? (Unfortunately, I’ve certainly been there.)...

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3 Subtle Ways Men Approach Love Differently Than Women

Have you ever noticed that your guy friends handle relationships a bit differently than your girl friends? Of course, this isn’t always the case,...

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The ‘Plastic Bag Theory’ Is Going Viral, and It’s Bad News for Some Relationships

Apparently, there’s a new dating “theory” describing a pattern that’s been common for decades: a partner who seems laid-back and easygoing,...

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The College Dream Is Getting Harder to Sell. Is Getting a Degree Even Worth It Anymore?

Is investing in college still worth it—and do you really need a degree to launch a successful career? New data from Kickresume has found that over...

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6 Clear Signs You’re Dating Your Soulmate

This might be controversial, but I don’t believe there’s one perfect person for each of us in this world. I think love is both a feeling and a...

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Gemini Season Starts Today, and These 6 Zodiac Signs Might Be Getting a Cosmic Plot Twist

Are you ready for Gemini season? Gemini season officially launches today, May 20, lasting until June 21—the first day of summer. During this time,...

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A Tense Mars-Pluto Square Is Coming Next Week, and Astrologers Say It Could Stir Up Conflict

On May 25, Mars will be squaring Pluto, triggering tension and conflict in our lives. This transit isn’t one to fear, but rather to approach with...

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Venus in Cancer Is Here, and 4 Zodiac Signs Are Getting Hit With a Major Emotional Reset

Venus, the planet of love and beauty, officially entered Cancer yesterday, May 18—and it will remain here for about a month. This follows an...

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Mars in Taurus Is Here: What to Expect From This Transit and the Signs Most Affected

As of May 18, Mars is officially in Taurus, a grounded, sensual earth sign. Mars is known as the planet of action and aggression. In astrology, this...

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The Uranus Cazimi in Gemini Is Coming, and 3 Zodiac Signs Are in for a Major Wake-Up Call

If you’re into astrology, you might already know we have a powerful transit coming up on May 22: the Uranus Cazimi. Occurring in the air sign of...

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My Brothers Were My First Bullies—and My Best Dating Coaches

As someone who grew up with two older brothers, I can confidently say that our sibling dynamic shaped how I view men. No, it wasn’t just the...

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What Your Favorite Season Reveals About Your Personality

When does your soul feel most at ease? Is it during crisp autumn walks under overcast skies, cozy winter nights by the fire with a snowstorm raging...

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How to Tell If You’re Dating Someone Who’s Comfortable Staying Stuck

Every relationship has its issues, as no person or partner is perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, which can be highlighted in our most...

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My Perfectionism Was Ruining My Self-Care, Until I Learned This

If you’re anything like me, you likely view rest and self-care as a luxury, not a birthright. We all deserve—and need—time to relax, recharge,...

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4 Green Flags to Look for the First Time You See His Apartment (That Aren’t Soap and Toilet Paper)

I recently read a hilarious yet semi-concerning article on YourTango titled, “If A Man Has These 11 Increasingly Rare Things In His Home, He’s An...

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Dinner Dates Are the Worst Way to Get to Know Someone. Try This Instead.

The walking date is the new dinner date, and I am here for it. I mean, what better way to get to know someone than by moving your body in a...

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5 Truths the Super New Moon in Taurus Is Illuminating About Your Life, Growth, and Values

Saturday marks the Super New Moon in Taurus, a powerful celestial event that will change how you show up in the world going forward. If you’re into...

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3 Signs You Should Get Back With Your Ex (Yes, Really)

This might be a controversial statement—and a shocking one coming from me, considering I’ve never actually done this—but sometimes, it’s...

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Why Mercury Retrograde Feels So Chaotic Every Time It Happens

Many of us have heard of the phenomenon that is Mercury retrograde. While the astrological event has not been scientifically proven to affect us, many...

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Why the Internet Is Obsessed With ‘Fiber Training’ (and 5 Tips for Doing It)

Protein had its moment on TikTok, but now fiber seems to be stealing the spotlight. Of course, both are part of a well-balanced diet. As such,...

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The ‘Puffer-Fishing’ Dating Trend Might Explain Why You’re Still Single

Buckle up, everyone: there’s a “new” dating trend going around, and it’s sabotaging healthy connections before they even have the chance to...

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Mercury in Gemini Is a Cosmic Green Light for Action: 3 Tips for Navigating This Transit

Tomorrow, May 17, Mercury enters the air sign of Gemini until June, bringing high energy and supporting clear communication. “On the heels of its...

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3 Zodiac Signs That Will Have a Powerful Awakening During This Weekend’s New Moon in Taurus

The upcoming New Moon in Taurus will occur on May 16th, bringing a wave of groundedness and simple pleasures. This energy might feel intense, but it...

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3 Zodiac Signs That Will Feel May’s Mercury Cazimi the Hardest

On May 14, we will be experiencing a Mercury Cazimi, which occurs around six times per year. According to a professional astrologist, here’s what...

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Your Partner Keeps Promising to Change. Here’s When to Stop Waiting.

Have you ever dated someone who just couldn’t seem to keep their word? Maybe they were quick to make grand statements or empty promises, yet...

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These 3 Zodiac Signs Are at Their Best Under Pressure

Wondering which zodiac signs thrive at last-minute projects or in high-stakes environments? Here are the three zodiac signs that work well under...

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4 Zodiac Signs Getting the Biggest Gifts From the New Moon in Taurus

We have a powerful New Moon occurring next weekend, finally opening the doors you’ve been knocking on for months. “The New Moon in Taurus takes...

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Trinket Swapping Is the Whimsical Low-Stakes Hobby You Need Right Now

The other day, I was walking downtown to my local coffee shop, as I do most weekdays, when I came across what appeared to be a Little Free Library....

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3 Problems With Chasing ‘Happily Ever After’ (and What You Should Do Instead)

In dating, we often search for our “happily ever after”—but is that a realistic or even healthy goal? Marriage and long-term commitments...

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I Thought My Breakups Meant I Was Hard to Love, Then I Learned This

Years ago, I was in my mid-20s and enduring the worst (yet not the first) breakup I’d ever experienced. Dumped by a boyfriend I had just moved in...

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4 Ways to Harness the Grounding Energy of the Coming New Moon in Taurus

May’s New Moon, occurring in the sign of Taurus, will take place on May 16, 2026, at 4:01 p.m. EDT. The New Moon in Taurus brings powerful...

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You’re Not Heartbroken, You’re Traumatized (and 3 Steps to Heal)

If you’ve ever been through a traumatic breakup, you know just how long it can take to heal from the mistreatment, betrayal, and loss. Just because...

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You Didn’t Fall Out of Love, You’re Just Not Following the 7-7-7 Rule

Have you ever heard of the 7-7-7 rule in dating? An angel number isn’t going to magically heal your connection, but if your relationship is in a...

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Before You Break Up, Read This: 4 Ways to Save a Failing Relationship

Did you know that May is Mental Health Awareness Month? This time is dedicated to reducing the stigma surrounding various mental health conditions and...

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Why Ending a Situationship Hurts So Much More Than a Long-Term Breakup

Have you ever wondered why it’s harder to get over your toxic, short-lived situationship than your healthy, loving, long-term relationship? (If you...

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4 Things Your Partner Secretly Wants in Bed, But Won’t Ask For

I hate to break it to you, but your partner probably has an entire list of things they want to try in the bedroom but are too shy to bring up to you....

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Here’s What You’re Most Insecure About, According to Your Zodiac Sign

Every zodiac sign has its strengths and weaknesses. Wondering where yours might fall short—and how it affects your confidence? Here’s what...

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I Think ‘Parallel Play’ Is the Secret to My Happy Relationship

The other day, a friend of mine asked how it’s been living with my boyfriend, and my immediate reaction—other than exclaiming “It’s been...

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4 Zodiac Signs Facing Major Transformation With Pluto Retrograde

Pluto, the generational planet of rebirth, evolution, and power in astrology, will station retrograde on Wednesday, April 6, triggering a five-month...

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The Eta Aquarid Meteor Shower Is Coming: Here’s the Best Time to Watch

Calling all astronomy lovers: It’s that time of year again—time to catch one of the best meteor showers, aka the Eta Aquarids. Here’s how you...

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6 Zodiac Signs and Placements Enjoying the Most Luck in May 2026

It’s officially a new month, and despite April being my birthday month, I couldn’t be happier to move deeper into spring. What’s more, we’re...

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Why You Feel Hopeful and Hopeless at the Same Time (and 5 Ways to Cope)

If you’re anything like me, you likely swing back and forth between hopeful and discouraged. One moment, I come across a positive video online that...

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The 3 Zodiac Signs Getting Serious Financial Luck in May 2026

I think we can all use a bit of financial luck right now, and astrology might just have our backs on this one—at least, for a few signs. With the...

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Why Even Small Decisions Feel Exhausting (and 5 Ways to Fix It)

Did you know that making too many choices can lead to an experience known as decision fatigue? Yes—it’s a real thing, and it can cause burnout and...

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5 Things Therapists Want You to Know Before You Start Dating Again

A recent survey by Hily Dating App found that 71 percent of people feel motivated to actively date. Naturally, many of those people are turning to...

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Tired of Bad Dates? Try the Burned Haystack Dating Method.

If you’ve ever heard the saying “needle in a haystack,” you likely know just how difficult it is to find said needle in today’s dating...

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How to Harness the Chaotic Healing Energy of Tonight’s Scorpio Full Moon

Today’s Flower Full Moon in Scorpio might influence our behavior and emotions this weekend, bringing a chaotic yet healing energy to the air....

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