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The Surprisingly Dark History Behind Halloween’s Trick-or-Treating Tradition

As we gear up for Halloweekend, what better time to reflect on this beloved holiday and its greatest customs? Have you ever wondered how...

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5 Reasons Why Watching Horror Movies Feels So Good (Even When You’re Terrified)

Last night, my boyfriend and I were working our way through Season 1 of the science-fiction horror show From when I had a confusing realization:...

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3 Essential Albums I’d Recommend to an Alien Who’s Getting Into Earth Music

If an alien showed up and was looking to get into Earth music for the first time, I have the perfect recommendations ready. Obviously, this is just a...

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3 Ways to Tap Into Your Psychic Side This Halloween, According to a Spiritual Expert

I don’t know about you, but I believe we all have inner gifts we either naturally repress or are too conditioned to embrace. What would happen if we...

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Travelers Are Ditching Traditional Vacations for ‘Skillcations.’ Here’s Why.

Believe it or not, traveling has become an unfulfilling pastime for some people, so much so that they’re actually seeking skill development from...

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The Veil Is Thinning: These Halloween Rituals Might Help You Connect With Your Ancestors

According to many cultures and spiritual practices, the “veil” between the physical and spiritual worlds is thinnest on Halloween. In fact,...

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3 Ways to Recharge Your Social Battery When You’re Constantly Feeling Drained

I don’t know about you, but I quite possibly have the world’s smallest social battery. I’m a great time…but only for a very short time. And...

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Is Halloween the New Valentine’s Day? Here’s Why It Might Be the Perfect Night to Find Love.

I don’t know about you, but to me, Halloween has always felt like the best holiday for love and romance. Perhaps it’s due to the gorgeous change...

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4 Signs Your Partner Has ‘Peter Pan Syndrome,’ According to a Therapist

Does your partner refuse to grow up, make a real commitment, and take responsibility for their own life? They might be struggling with Peter Pan...

27.10.2026 5

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4 Signs You’re Living Life on Autopilot Without Even Realizing It, According to a Therapist

When you look back on your past week, month, or year, can you note more than just a few significant or special moments, or do most of your days just...

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5 Brutal Signs Someone Is Using You (And What to Do About It)

There’s no worse feeling than being used by those closest to you. And sometimes, it’s difficult to pick up on the red flags. Wondering whether...

27.10.2026 7

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The Uncomfortable Thing Every Healthy Couple Needs to Do, According to a Relationship Expert

No relationship is perfect. If you can’t voice your vulnerable thoughts, messy feelings, or opposing perspectives to your partner, you might lack...

26.10.2026 8

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How to Know If You Have Money Dysmorphia (and How to Treat It), According to an Expert

You’ve likely heard of the mental health condition called body dysmorphia, which causes individuals to ruminate and dwell on their perceived...

26.10.2026 6

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There’s a Type of Infertility That Has Nothing to Do With Your Health, Experts Say

When you think of infertility, you likely consider medical-related issues that prevent individuals or couples from having children. Infertility is a...

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Introducing ‘Microdismissal,’ the Toxic Relationship Habit You Might Not Even Notice

Are you in a relationship with someone who continuously downplays your emotions and experiences? You might be facing microdismissals, or the acts of...

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Why You Apologize for Everything, Even When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong

Are you guilty of over-apologizing for anything and everything? Trust me, you’re not the only one. “I’m sorry” is basically my catchphrase,...

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Why ‘Humblebragging’ Makes People Dislike You, According to Psychology

There’s nothing more off-putting than a person bragging about something while simultaneously engaging in self-deprecation, only to appear humble and...

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Stop Accusing Writers of Using AI Just Because They Use Em Dashes

The other night—while decompressing after a long day of writing—I was scrolling through comments on an Instagram post and spotted one that stopped...

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7 Signs You’re Doing All the Work in Your Relationship, According to Therapists

If you feel exhausted in your relationship, you might be unknowingly carrying the invisible load for both you and your partner. This common, one-sided...

24.10.2026 7

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‘Depleted Grandma Syndrome’ Is Affecting Grandmas Everywhere, and It’s a Serious Issue

Many new parents rely on their own parents for childcare, especially when they return to work after parental leave. While this is common in many...

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Why Your Dates Feel So Awkward (And How to Fix It)

We all have different communication styles and preferences, with some of us seeking conversations and others waiting to be included. This is...

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How to Tell if You’re Having a Healthy Argument or a Toxic Fight, According to Therapists

I’ve heard many couples claim they “never argue,” but what I assume they mean is they never fight. Disagreements are a normal part of every...

23.10.2026 10

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What Is the ‘Box Theory’? The Viral Dating Trend That Explains How Men View Women.

Have you heard the idea that men categorize women into one of three boxes immediately upon meeting them? This concept, also called the box theory, has...

22.10.2026 10

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3 Ways to Make Yourself Luckier in Life, According to Psychology

Do you believe we make our own luck in life, or do you believe certain individuals are randomly blessed with luck? According to psychology, both our...

22.10.2026 10

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What Is the Hunter’s Moon? Everything to Know About October’s Full Moon.

In the late-night/early-morning hours of Monday, October 26, October’s full moon will peak at 12:12 a.m. EDT. Known as the Hunter’s Moon, it will...

21.10.2026 10

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The ‘3-6-9 Dating Rule’ Might Explain Why So Many Relationships Fall Apart

TikTok has yet another dating theory people treat like gospel: the 3-6-9 dating rule. This concept breaks the first nine months of dating into three...

20.10.2026 10

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The Internet Thinks Wearing Sweatpants Could Help You Find a Better Boyfriend. Are They Right?

I often hear this complaint online: Women spend hours prepping for a first date, curling their hair, doing their makeup, and choosing an outfit...

19.10.2026 10

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The ‘Rubber Band Theory’ Could Explain Why Your Boyfriend Is Being So Distant

Another day, another dating theory—and this one is a bit brutal, particularly to men. Coined by relationship counselor and author John Gray in his...

19.10.2026 10

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4 Signs You ‘Wear the Pants’ in Your Relationship, According to a Dating Expert

Growing up as a Millennial, I’ve learned (and since unlearned) a ton of old-fashioned dating advice and expectations. One concept that’s always...

19.10.2026 10

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5 Signs You Might Be a Mystic, According to a Spiritual Expert

If you’re into spirituality at all, you might have heard the term “mystic” thrown around from time to time. These individuals are believed to...

18.10.2026 10

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What Is ‘Fizzling’? The Dating Trend That Has the Internet Livid.

All these “dating trends” are enough to make even the most hopeless of romantics want to lock themselves away for a life in solitude—and...

18.10.2026 10

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The Difference Between Friend Types, According to a Psychologist

If you’re online at all today, you likely know there’s a label for just about everything, from dating patterns to friendship dynamics. Recent...

18.10.2026 10

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Introducing ‘Cloaking,’ the Latest Dating Trend Tormenting Hopeful Singles

Can you imagine a dating trend more evil than ghosting? Unfortunately, “cloaking” takes the cake on this one. This dating trend was coined by...

18.10.2026 10

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How to Find Your Purpose in Life, According to a Therapist

As the self-proclaimed most anxious person in this world, I have faced just about every type of anxiety known to man. But one type that caught my...

17.10.2026 10

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How to Write a Book Without Giving Up on It Halfway Through: A Guide

For the past several months, I’ve been writing my second novel—a story that means more to me than I can put into words (and that’s coming from...

17.10.2026 10

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Why Scorpio Season Is Going to Be Chaotic as Heck This Year, According to an Astrologer

Scorpio season runs from October 23 to November 22, bringing mystery and passion to autumn. Here’s what to expect as the season begins, according to...

17.10.2026 10

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The ‘Wednesday Effect’ Might Explain Why You Feel Like Life Is Passing You By

In today’s fast-paced world, it seems we’re always chasing the next something: the next milestone, next promotion, next goal, next year… As a...

17.10.2026 10

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Mercury Retrograde Is Almost Here, and These 3 Zodiac Signs Will Feel It the Most

If you’re into astrology, you likely know there’s a double retrograde coming this month. Venus and Mercury will both be retrograde, intensifying...

17.10.2026 10

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6 Signs You’ve Gotten Too Comfortable in Your Relationship, According to Therapists

Comfort in a relationship is a great achievement, but too much of anything can be harmful. Are you worried you or your partner have grown too...

15.10.2026 10

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6 Ways to Survive Working With Your Ex, According to an HR Expert

Working with your ex is far from ideal. In fact, it’s likely the reason most workers avoid dating their colleagues in the first place. But...

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Pluto Retrograde Ends This Week. Here’s What You Should Know.

Pluto has been retrograde since early May this year, but it finally stations direct on October 15. Here’s what you can expect as this transit ends....

14.10.2026 10

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3 Ways to Navigate Losing Attraction to Your Partner, According to a Sex Therapist

Many long-term couples fall into a rut at some point in their relationship, believing their lack of a sex life means they’ve lost attraction to each...

12.10.2026 10

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4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Getting Married, According to a Relationship Coach

Marriage is a major life and relationship milestone—a decision worth taking seriously. While some people dream of tying the knot with their soulmate...

12.10.2026 10

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Why Constant Connection Might Be Hurting Your Relationship, According to a Marriage Therapist

If there’s one thing I know about younger generations, it’s that they expect far too much of themselves and each other—especially in...

11.10.2026 10

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What Is the ‘Resilience Paradox,’ and What Is It Costing You?

I recently watched an eye-opening TikTok video that highlighted how much of society lacks resilience. The user went on to explain some of the horrific...

11.10.2026 10

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4 Ways to Stop Living for the Weekend, According to a Therapist

If you work a traditional 9-5 job, you likely understand the hustle of working all week just to cram a bunch of social activities into a short...

11.10.2026 10

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TikTok Has a New Theory About Happy Couples. Does It Hold Up?

If you’re on TikTok, you’ve probably heard of the latest dating trend: the rock-and-star theory. This relationship theory suggests that opposites...

10.10.2026 10

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Why Your Morning Coffee Puts You in a Better Mood, According to Science

I don’t know about you, but my solution to most bad days is picking up a cup of coffee at a local cafe or brewing my own at home. Whether it’s a...

10.10.2026 10

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5 Ways Living With OCD Has Shaped Me for the Better

I’ve battled obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) since childhood, and I truly do not know life without this disorder. The ego-dystonic intrusive...

10.10.2026 10

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Today’s New Moon Will Have You Rethinking Your Love Life, According to Astrology

The new moon in Libra will occur on Saturday, October 10, at 11:50 a.m. ET, when the moon reaches 0% illumination. From our view here on Earth, the...

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