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Introducing the ‘Pitch-A-Friend’ Dating Trend That Lets Your Friends Play Matchmaker

There’s a new dating trend going around that allows your friends to involve themselves in your love life. Honestly? I’m all for it. The “pitch a...

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Why You Keep Saving Your Life for Later, According to Psychology

I don’t know what social conditioning led us here, but I’ve noticed an unhealthy pattern in myself and many other people today: We’re too afraid...

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Physical Signs You’re in the Wrong Relationship, According to a Therapist

Have you ever been in a relationship so toxic that it actually affected your physical health? Believe it or not, this is a common occurrence for many...

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What to Know About Mental Fasting, the Trend That Helps You Log Off and Reset

I don’t know about you, but sometimes, I wish I could starve my brain of stimulation. Maybe then, I could actually turn my brain off and rest for...

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Why You Feel Guilty for Resting, According to Psychology

One of the most frustrating lies my brain tells me is that I must earn my rest. No matter what time of day it is, no matter how burned out I am, if...

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The ‘Hush Trip’ Trend Lets Remote Workers Travel Without Using PTO. Here’s How It Works.

I think most of us can agree that asking permission to take PTO or even to work from a different location feels like asking Mom whether we could sleep...

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Introducing the ‘Ocean View’ Trend That Can Help Couples Fight Better

Any time I’m near the ocean, I feel a sense of relief like a breath of fresh air. Admiring its vastness helps my own problems feel small and...

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What July’s New Moon in Cancer Means for Your Zodiac Sign, According to an Astrologer

On July 14, in the midst of a chaotic and emotional Mercury Retrograde, we will be experiencing a powerful new moon in Cancer. According to...

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4 Signs You Might Have Relationship OCD (And How to Manage It)

OCD is one of the most debilitating anxiety disorders out there, and one I’ve struggled with since I was a little kid. As I’ve grown into...

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As If Unaffordable Homes Weren’t Enough, Now Buyers Are Being ‘Housefished’

Most of us can agree that artificial intelligence (AI) has done a lot more harm than good. One problem it’s causing is the real estate agency is the...

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5 Ways to Practice Summer Hygge and Make the Season Feel Cozier

I’ve always loved the concept of “hygge,” which is essentially a Danish term for coziness, comfort, connection, and contentment. Think: a warm,...

08.07.2026 4

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What Is a ‘Heatwave Hangover’? Experts Say the Effects Can Last for Days.

Much of the U.S. experienced a record-breaking heatwave over the 4th of July weekend. On the East Coast, stepping outside felt like opening your door...

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The Difference Between Emotional Cheating and a Close Friendship

Most of us can agree that physical cheating is wrong, but when it comes to emotional cheating, many people have mixed opinions. Since there’s no...

08.07.2026 2

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Introducing ‘Airport Divorces,’ the Temporary Split That Could Prevent Fights Before Flights

You’ve heard of the “sleep divorce,” where partners choose to snooze separately from each other for better rest. But what about the ‘airport...

06.07.2026 10

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4 Risky Wellness Trends Experts Say Aren’t as Healthy as They Seem

If you’re on social media at all, you’re likely used to hearing about random wellness trends that “will literally change your life.” But if...

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How to End a Bad First Date Without Making It Weird, According to Dating Experts

One of the worst first date experiences is showing up and immediately knowing you and the other person are not a match. Sometimes it’s intuitive;...

06.07.2026 10

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3 Signs You’re in a Low-Vibrational Relationship That’s Draining Your Energy

Have you ever been called “low vibrational” for bringing down the mood or excessively complaining? Well, people are turning this insult into a...

05.07.2026 9

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My OCD Makes Me Question If I’m a Good Person in Every Conversation

OCD affects everyone differently, and as someone who grew up with the debilitating disorder, I have cycled through countless “themes” and subsets...

05.07.2026 10

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Stuck Feeling Anxious? These 7 Values Can Help You Feel Grounded Again.

When I’m in a particularly low or dark mental health state, I often find that realigning with my values is the only way out. Not only does this help...

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3 Signs You and Your Partner Are Falling Into ‘Roommate Syndrome’ (and How to Fix It)

When it comes to long-term relationships, it’s easy to fall into a rut and become complacent. However, this behavior can destroy even the best and...

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It’s ‘Empty Weekend’ Summer, and I’m Ready to Jump on the Trend

I don’t know about you, but with summer in full force and social gatherings dominating my schedule the past few months, I would like nothing more...

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Your Toxic Family Might Be the Reason You’re Still Single

If you have a toxic family, bringing your partner around can feel like you’re either throwing them to the wolves or sabotaging a healthy connection....

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How Soon Is ‘Too Soon’? The Dangers of Falling in Love Too Quickly.

We all have that one friend who seems to fall in love every other week, claiming to have found “the one” every time they go on a first date. For a...

04.07.2026 20

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Why ‘Fexting’ With Your Partner Could Actually Be a Good Thing, According to Therapists

Have you ever gotten into an argument with your partner while physically apart, unable to find time for a phone call or in-person discussion, so you...

02.07.2026 20

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Lie-Down Clubs Are the Latest Wellness Trend for Burnout, but Do They Actually Work?

According to a recent article by The Post, there’s a new wellness initiative aimed at combating burnout: lie-down clubs, aka meetups dedicated...

02.07.2026 5

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What Your Music Taste Says About Your Personality, According to Therapists

I like to think that someone’s taste in music can tell you a lot about them as a person, though (from personal experience) I also know it can be...

02.07.2026 5

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Astrologers Say the 2026 Lion’s Gate Portal Could Be More Transformative Than You Think

If you’re into astrology, spirituality, or numerology, you might have heard of the Lion’s Gate Portal, or the astrological alignment of the Earth,...

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5 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Ready for Commitment, Even If They Say They Are

Have you ever dated someone who claimed to be interested in a relationship, but when it came down to actually deepening commitment, you could sense...

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4 Ways to Avoid Carrying ‘Emotional Debt’ Into Your Next Relationship

We all have that one friend who seems to jump from relationship to relationship without pausing to reflect and process their emotions. While you...

29.06.2026 10

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What Is a ‘Sunset Clause’? The Dating Trend That Could Save You Months of Heartbreak.

In a highly non-commital dating world, it’s no wonder so many singles are creating rules, limits, and boundaries to protect their time and energy....

28.06.2026 20

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What Is Literary Tourism? The BookTok Travel Trend Taking Off This Summer.

Perhaps I’m boring, but any time I schedule a trip somewhere, my first thought is “What books should I pack???” I also spend a ridiculous amount...

27.06.2026 10

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Introducing ‘Grande-ing,’ the Therapist-Approved Breakup Trend Inspired by Ariana Grande

You’ve likely heard Ariana Grande’s hit song “thank you, next,” which expresses gratitude to past lovers while highlighting the personal...

27.06.2026 10

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The ‘Recovery Girl’ Era Is Here, and Your Body Might Thank You for It

I recently read an article in Vogue Adria that highlighted society’s transition from the “Pilates Princess” era to the “Recovery Girl” era,...

27.06.2026 10

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4 Zodiac Signs That Will Be Deep in Their Feelings This Cancer Season

Most of us associate Cancer season with a deeply emotional time, as this water sign is known to be sensitive, empathetic, and nurturing. “When the...

27.06.2026 10

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Depressed Gen Z Are Chasing the ‘Perfect’ Bodies, But Most Are Still Miserable

With the rise of influencer culture and the popularity of highly sexualized, often shallow reality TV dating shows, it’s easy to see how younger...

27.06.2026 10

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The Strange Post-Breakup Habit Most Adults Won’t Admit They Have

If you’ve ever gone through a breakup, you likely know how…unhinged heartbreak can make you. For example, I’m ashamed to admit that I once...

26.06.2026 10

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These 4 Zodiac Signs Will Have the Toughest Cancer Season, According to an Astrologer

Cancer season is not for the weak—and also not for the logical, as it brings an influx of complex emotions and vulnerable moments. With Mercury...

26.06.2026 10

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The Viral ‘July Theory’ Says Your Love Life Could Change Dramatically This Month

According to the “July Theory,” you might want to prepare for some incoming shifts in your dating life. That ex you have blocked (likely for good...

25.06.2026 8

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Construction at South Carolina Military College Unearths Over 50 Unmarked Graves

Imagine showing up to work in construction and unknowingly uncovering dozens of human remains? Unfortunately for some contract workers in Charleston,...

24.06.2026 3

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These 3 Zodiac Signs Will Feel the Upcoming Mars-Uranus Conjunction the Most, According to Astrologers

This year, the 4th of July might be a bit more…unpredictable and volatile than usual. You can blame the stars for this one—more specifically, the...

24.06.2026 10

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‘Star Bathing’ Is the Internet’s Latest Favorite Wellness Trend. Does It Actually Do Anything?

You’ve undoubtedly heard of sunbathing, aka lying beneath the sunshine and soaking up its warmth. But what about star bathing? Star bathing is one...

23.06.2026 10

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The ‘Strawberry Moon’ Returns Next Week. Here’s What It Means for Your Zodiac Sign.

The first full moon of the summer is arriving next week on Monday, June 29, at 7:57 p.m. EST. Learn all about the Strawberry Moon—and how best to...

23.06.2026 10

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Gen Z and Millennials Are Open to Finding Love at Funerals, New Survey Finds

Many modern daters are seeking in-person meet-cutes over dating app connections, and you might be shocked by the settings they’re willing to...

22.06.2026 20

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How to Host an At-Home Wellness Retreat Without Spending Retreat Money

I don’t know about you, but I could really use one of those luxurious wellness retreats that are taking over TikTok and Instagram. Unfortunately, I...

21.06.2026 20

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Introducing Maybelaterships, the Dating Trend That Might Be Worse Than a Situationship

You’ve heard of situationships, but what about “maybelaterships”? This dating arrangement is perhaps more egregious in nature. Let’s explore...

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4 Signs Your First Date Has Real Relationship Potential, According to a Psychologist

First dates are never easy and always stressful (at least, in my case). Putting yourself out there and meeting new people over and over again can feel...

20.06.2026 10

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This Dating Coach’s 48-Hour Rule Could Change How You Judge First Dates

How long into a first date can you tell whether you’re interested in the person? For many, it’s almost immediate—and they’ll even completely...

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Summerween Is Here, and It’s Exactly What Halloween Fans Need Right Now

Fall has always been my favorite season, while Halloween has remained my favorite holiday since childhood. From homemade sweets and creamy, delicious...

20.06.2026 20

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The ‘Four Sixes’ Dating Trend Is Everything That’s Wrong With Modern Dating

I’ve read and written about countless dating trends in recent years, but I must say, the “Four Sixes” dating trend is one of the most egregious....

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This One Dating App Mistake Could Ruin Your Chances of a Summer Fling

With summer just around the corner, many singles are seeking new connections and lighthearted fun in the sun. However, one common dating app mistake...

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