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There’s a New Way to Meet Cute Guys, but Does It Actually Work?

The dating world is so bleak right now that some singles are calling restaurants/bars ahead of time to see whether any cute guys are there. And while...

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The 3 Biggest Reasons People Go Back to Their Exes, According to a Therapist

While typically frowned upon, it’s entirely common to rekindle a relationship with an ex, especially in the early phases of a breakup. It can feel...

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Libra Season Is Here, and These 4 Zodiac Signs Will Feel It the Most

Libra season has officially started, bringing a much-needed lighthearted energy after Virgo season. “Libra season is September 22 to October 22,”...

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4 Spooky Dating Trends to Watch for During October’s Double Retrograde

You’ve likely heard of the horrors of Mercury retrograde, but this October and November, it’ll be accompanied by a rare “double retrograde”...

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Why You Can’t Stop Missing Your Ex, Even When the Relationship Was Terrible

Often, after a harsh breakup, many people find themselves pining for a version of their ex that doesn’t even exist. This habit, while common and...

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Experience: I Bought a Terrible ‘Anti-Conscription’ Mask

This letter is from THE SELF-DESTRUCTION ISSUE of VICE magazine. Find it in a store near you, or get 4 issues each year sent straight to your door, by...

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5 Ways to Celebrate the Autumn Equinox, According to a Therapist

While many of us have been celebrating the fall season since early summer (just me?), September 22 is the autumn equinox, aka the official start of...

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Singles Are Apparently Buying Costco Memberships to Find Love. But Does It Work?

Apparently, a new dating trend has made Costco the ideal meeting ground for lovers. In fact, some people are investing in wholesale club memberships...

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6 Simple Ways to Bring Romance Back Into Your Relationship, According to a Therapist

Looking to increase your intimacy with your partner? Here are six ways to build romance in your relationship—no matter how long you and your partner...

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This Simple Mindset Shift Could Make Your Dating Life So Much Better

You’ve heard of the hopeless romantic, but what about the hopeful romantic? This type of person is both a realist and a dreamer, and their positive...

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The New Travel Trend That’s All About Reliving Your Childhood

Apparently, a new travel trend plays on childhood nostalgia and past adventures. Called a “throwback trip,” this trend is for nostalgic travelers....

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This Simple Relationship Habit Could Make You Happier Together, According to Therapists

Want to improve your relationship? According to therapists, it’s as simple as shifting your focus onto the positives of your connection rather than...

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Introducing ‘Bloomscrolling,’ the Social Media Trend That Could Improve Your Mental Health

When you think about aimlessly scrolling on social media, you likely immediately consider the risks and downsides of this time-consuming habit....

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The ‘Black Cat’ Dating Trend Could Change How You Approach Relationships

You’ve heard of the golden retriever boyfriend, but what about the black cat girlfriend? Though it’s usually used to describe a woman in a...

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5 Ways to Stop Being Socially Awkward, According to a Psychologist

As an introvert with social anxiety, one of my biggest weaknesses is my social awkwardness. While we all might feel awkward from time to time, it can...

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The Viral ‘October Theory’ Might Be the Reset You Need Before 2027

I don’t know about you, but fall has always felt more like a fresh start and new chapter than January 1st ever has. In fact, this experience mirrors...

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The New Breakup Trend That’s Basically Quiet Quitting Your Relationship

You might have heard of the breakup type known as “conscious uncoupling,” which is essentially a mutual, respectful, and intentional separation...

15.09.2026 7

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The Strange Psychology Behind Always Letting Your Coffee Go Cold

Recently, I noticed a bad habit: letting my coffee grow cold. Instead of being present and enjoying my morning cup, I often busy myself with other...

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5 Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore, According to a Therapist

Many people falsely assume their relationship is healthy simply because they feel physically safe with their partner. But while they might not need to...

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The Breakup Trend That’s Basically the Opposite of Ghosting

Instead of ghosting your soon-to-be ex-partner this spooky season, why not have an actual, respectful conversation like a mature adult? This breakup...

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You Might Be Addicted to Unhappiness Without Realizing It

We all know a person who seems almost addicted to their own suffering, constantly dwelling on the unfairness of their situation or finding comfort in...

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The Annoying Friend Habit That Keeps Every Group Chat Plan From Actually Happening

You’ve heard of an energy vampire, but what about a plan vampire? This type of friend is bound to confine your best-laid plans to the group chat....

13.09.2026 4

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4 Steps for the Perfect Fall Reset, According to a Mental Health Expert

I don’t know about you, but autumn has always felt like the ideal time to start fresh and make some much-needed shifts to my everyday...

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How to Recover From an ‘Emotional Hangover,’ According to a Therapist

Have you ever had a particularly hard conversation or vulnerable evening with a loved one, only to wake up the next morning feeling ill and depleted?...

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5 Signs Your ‘Talking Stage’ Could Turn Into a Real Relationship, According to a Dating Coach

The early stages of dating can feel both exciting and destabilizing, even for the most confident and grounded individuals. When you’re getting to...

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Why Gossiping Might Actually Be Good for You, According to Science

Gossiping is one of the most common yet frowned-upon social habits—but is it really as bad as we paint it out to be? According to researchers,...

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These 4 Zodiac Signs Will Feel Tonight’s New Moon the Most, According to an Astrologer

We have a powerful new moon occurring in the sign of Virgo on Thursday, September 10—and some zodiac signs will finally be taking action toward...

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The 9/9 Portal Opens Today, and These 4 Zodiac Signs Will Feel It the Most

According to numerology, the number 9 represents the end of a cycle, completion, and spiritual transformation. “Numerology—known as...

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5 Ways to Heal After a Friend Ghosts You, According to a Mental Health Expert

As we get older, it’s natural to grow apart from some friends. However, while some friendships fade over time with grace and respect, others end...

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‘Good Girl Syndrome’ Is Real, and It’s Not as Wholesome as It Sounds

Growing up, many girls are taught to be quiet, modest, helpful, and agreeable. Only then are they praised for being a “good girl”—or really, for...

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There’s a New Dating Red Flag All Over Social Media, and You’ve Probably Experienced It

If you’re active on social media, you likely have heard of the latest internet slang called the “performative man.” This describes a man who...

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Can You Really Be Friends With an Ex? We Asked a Dating Expert.

Can you be friends with an ex? This decades-long controversy has earned conflicting opinions and valid perspectives from both ends of the argument. So...

08.09.2026 10

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What Chronic Illness Taught Me About the Body I Spent Years Criticizing

For as long as I can remember—and as much as I hate to admit it—I’ve placed more value in my appearance than I have in my health. I believed...

08.09.2026 10

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The Biggest Relationship Red Flag You Probably Haven’t Heard Of, According to a Therapist

Did you know there are vampires living among us? Okay, so maybe not the traditional blood-sucking type of vampire you’re imagining, but rather the...

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4 Spooky Self-Care Rituals to Try This Fall That Might Actually Make You Feel Better

September is officially upon us, which means Halloween is just around the corner, bringing a mysterious chill to the air. Autumn marks the perfect...

05.09.2026 10

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The Real Reason You Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Ex, According to a Relationship Expert

One of the most difficult parts of dating is enduring breakups and finding the strength to move forward after heartbreak. For months, sometimes years,...

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Are You the ‘Nav Friend’ of Your Friend Group? Here’s How to Tell.

Every friend group has its own “types” of individuals, from the mom friend to the vibe-checker. In your own social circle, you might play a...

04.09.2026 10

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5 Signs of Depression in Men That Are Easy to Miss, According to a Psychologist

Depression is a highly individualized experience—so much so that it often goes unnoticed, especially in men. “In general, men are less likely to...

04.09.2026 10

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These 4 Zodiac Signs Can Expect Major Relationship Drama in September

According to astrologers, September is going to pack a ton of shifts and drama into our love lives, but it might just be for the best. Venus—the...

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Dungeons and Dragons DMs Gain Access To New Monsters, Maps, And A Fantastic Location

Dungeons and Dragons DMs can check out the first Fantastic Location included in the latest D&D Beyond Drop.

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3 Signs TikTok Might Be Making Your Anxiety Worse

As someone with health OCD and a rare chronic illness, I know just how easy it is to go down the rabbit hole that is TikTok. While the social media...

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3 Cozy Books to Read If You Want to Get in the Mood for Fall

It’s officially September, which means autumn is just around the corner. I don’t know about you, but fall is the ideal season of reading for me....

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4 Signs Your Friend Might Actually Be Your Biggest Hater

Most of us have had a friend who was a secret hater—and if you haven’t, consider yourself lucky. While some competition and jealousy are...

03.09.2026 10

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Introducing ‘Dial-Toning,’ the Most Awkward Dating Trend Yet

You’ve heard of ghosting—perhaps one of the most popular yet ruthless dating trends to exist. But what about dial-toning? This dating behavior is...

02.09.2026 10

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These 5 Zodiac Signs Will Be the Luckiest in September

To me, September is the official start of spooky season, with autumn just around the corner at the end of the month. Many people are returning to...

02.09.2026 10

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The Mars Square Saturn Transit Will Have These 4 Zodiac Signs Acting Unhinged This Week

It’s officially September, and what better way to ring in the new month than with a Mars square Saturn transit? Maisy Bristol, astrologer, author,...

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4 Signs You Know How to Handle a Difficult Relationship, According to a Therapist

Most of us know that dating isn’t easy—especially not today. Even in the most loving of relationships, lifestyle incompatibilities, contrasting...

01.09.2026 10

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Introducing ‘September Sadness,’ the Reason You Might Feel Off This Month

You’ve heard of summertime sadness, but what about September sadness? As summer draws to a close this month, many people feel anxious and bummed...

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What Is a Soul Tie, and Can You Actually Cut One?

Have you ever met someone—a friend, lover, or even just a stranger in passing—who you instantly felt a deep, spiritual connection with? It’s as...

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3 Tips for Finding Your ‘Boo’ This Halloween, According to a Dating Coach

I don’t know about you, but Halloween is my favorite holiday. The cozy vibes, vibrant colors, sweet treats, cool breeze, alluring scents, and spooky...

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