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What Is the ‘November Theory’? The Dating Trend That Could Make or Break Your Relationship.

A matchmaker explains why November can push couples toward commitment or breakups as cuffing season and holiday pressures collide.

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Come November, once Halloween passes and the holidays approach, many singles start taking their dating lives more seriously. With the weather cooling and cuffing season in full swing, some attempt to tie down their current situationships or talking stages, while others go out on the prowl for a more serious connection. Experts call this pattern of behavior the “November Theory.”

With November just around the corner, you might want to familiarize yourself with the concept, so you’re ready for whatever romantic twists this month throws at you.

What Is the November Theory in Dating?

The November Theory essentially positions November as a month when romantic relationships are either dropped or deepened. Many believe Thanksgiving (and the holiday season in general) adds pressure........

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