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Is Halloween the New Valentine’s Day? Here’s Why It Might Be the Perfect Night to Find Love.

From playful costumes to fear-induced attraction, a therapist explains why Halloween can create the perfect atmosphere for romance.

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I don’t know about you, but to me, Halloween has always felt like the best holiday for love and romance.

Perhaps it’s due to the gorgeous change in seasons, the creative costumes, the playful festivities, and the air of mystery surrounding the day. Or maybe it’s just that the holiday falls right at the start of cuffing season. Either way, it’s a great, low-stakes time to be yourself and make connections.

Halloween as the New Valentine’s Day

Many people share the same opinion: Halloween is the new Valentine’s Day. There’s less pressure, lower expectations, more playfulness (and arguably more sensual energy), and a whole lotta fear to get you in the mood.

“Valentine’s Day has a bit of pressure attached to it, and it can feel like a forced situation, which doesn’t really allow for a ton of excitement or even playfulness or fun,” says Laurie Groh, MS, LPC, SAS, licensed professional counselor and owner of Shoreside Therapies in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. “Halloween, on the other hand, is all about play and fun.........

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