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John Kim Lmft

John Kim Lmft

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Letting Go of the Fear of Being Single

If single, embrace your independence.

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Your Heart Didn't Break

You may feel heartbroken, but the truth is, hearts don’t break.

14.11.2024 30

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The Truth About Attachment Styles

In your relationship, are you chasing or running?

11.11.2024 30

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How to Fight Without Fighting

The secret to relationship conflict.

07.11.2024 10

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Why You Can’t Swipe Your Way to Love

The way we use dating apps has made it harder to form meaningful connections.

04.11.2024 10

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The Emotional Rollercoaster of Breakups

Why your postbreakup emotions are all over the place (and what to do about it).

28.10.2024 20

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Creating Your Own Closure: Let Go of Relationship Residue

Relationship closure doesn’t come from someone else. It comes from you.

24.10.2024 10

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Stop Wondering What Could Have Been After a Breakup

21.10.2024 30

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Healing From Heartbreak: The First Step Toward Self-Love

What if your breakup could lead you back to yourself?

17.10.2024 10

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Breaking Old Patterns: Why Your Breakup Is a Wake-Up Call

Your breakup is a mirror. What is it showing you?

14.10.2024 20

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The 8 Different Types of Breakups (and What They Teach Us)

Not all breakups are the same—which type was yours?

10.10.2024 30

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Why a Breakup Can Be Your Greatest Opportunity

Breakups aren’t the end—they’re just the beginning.

07.10.2024 10

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Pseudo Versus Solid Self

A good way to remember pseudo versus solid is false versus true.

30.09.2024 10

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How I Found Myself Through Donuts, Motorcycles, and Barbells

Personal Perspective: We fall into the same patterns.

23.09.2024 20

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The Miracle of Love Isn't What You Think It Is

Personal Perspective: There’s something no one thinks about when it comes to love.

09.09.2024 10

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Closure Is a Bridge, Not a Door

Closure is embracing life's messiness, accepting unknowns, and moving forward.

03.09.2024 10

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How To Treat Your Mind Better

Like your morning coffee or yoga practice, mindfulness can be a powerful tool.

26.08.2024 10

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How to Deal With Loneliness When You're Single

Personal Perspective: What you can do about loneliness after a break up.

20.08.2024 30

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Self-Care Is Your First Date With Yourself

People are wearing the self-care T-shirt but not actually practicing it.

15.08.2024 10

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A Few Random Truths About Love

Many struggle with relationships due to misconceptions about love.

05.08.2024 20

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Who Are You Surrounding Yourself With?

Personal Perspective: It matters more than you think.

31.07.2024 30

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Prove Nothing and Find Your True Self

22.07.2024 8

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Don't Hide: The Importance of Practicing Vulnerability

If you don’t practice vulnerability, you will never reach your full potential.

17.07.2024 10

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What to Do If Your Worst Breakup Keeps Haunting You

Many people get stuck and can’t move on from their worst breakup.

08.07.2024 7

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How to Enjoy Being Single

Being single is a precious and valuable time.

25.06.2024 20

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Loving Someone Is a Choice

Choosing to love someone is an active decision we make.

19.06.2024 10

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Turning Breakups Into Breakthroughs

Personal Perspective: Reframing a breakup.

13.06.2024 20

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Why "Slowing Down" Is Essential For Your Growth

It's more valuable than you think.

30.04.2024 30

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How to Know if Your Relationship Is Toxic

It can be challenging to identify an unhealthy relationship.

23.04.2024 20

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How to Have Non-Negotiables

Non-negotiables are a solid foundation for a fulfilling and authentic life.

17.04.2024 7

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Hard Truths We Need to Hear

Hard truths can be challenging to confront.

09.04.2024 10

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Cheating Is Complicated

The reasons behind infidelity can be complex and multifaceted.

02.04.2024 20

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How to Love (on a Deeper Level)

Deepening your love requires ongoing effort and commitment from both partners.

26.03.2024 20

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How to Forgive Yourself

Forgiving yourself can be a powerful and transformative process.

19.03.2024 9

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7 Daily Rituals to Improve Your Self-Esteem

Self-esteem plays a crucial role in our lives.

05.03.2024 10

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Why No Contact and Boundaries Are Important With Your Ex

Cutting off contact with your ex after a breakup is necessary for your growth.

29.02.2024 9

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5 Questions to Ask So You Can Understand Yourself Better

Self-understanding requires patience, curiosity, and willingness to explore.

21.02.2024 20

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How to Stop Putting Pressure on Yourself

Understanding the underlying reasons behind the pressure you put on yourself.

14.02.2024 8

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How to Stop Getting Defensive About Everything

Create a more open and supportive environment in your relationships.

08.02.2024 10

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How To Be Happy Being Single

The singlehood period is a valuable time for self-discovery and personal growth.

01.02.2024 9

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Signs Your Relationship Is in Trouble

It's important to pay attention to various indicators.

24.01.2024 40

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The Number One Reason Why Relationships Fall Apart

16.01.2024 20

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Reframe the Story of Your Breakup

Reframing the story of a breakup can be a powerful tool.

09.01.2024 8

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How to Stop Our Triggers From Affecting Our Relationships

It's important to be aware of these triggers and their impact on our reactions.

03.01.2024 7

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How to Set Goals

Don't let next year be like all the others.

26.12.2023 10

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How to Not Feel Lonely Anymore

Experiencing loneliness is a normal part of being human.

18.12.2023 10

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How to Open Your Heart Up Again After a Breakup

Opening your heart to love again can contribute to healing and growth.

12.12.2023 10

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How to Find Your Truth

Finding your truth is a deeply personal and transformative journey.

05.12.2023 10

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