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ADVICE : AUNTIE AGNI

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I am stuck in a frustrating situation with my friend group and I don’t know how to deal with it anymore.

Whenever we are out in public or around other people, my friends make jokes at my expense, which deeply embarrass me. When I get upset or show my anger, they immediately turn it back on me, saying things such as “calm down, it was just a joke”, or telling me that I have no sense of humour.

This leaves me feeling completely cornered and forced to pretend everything is fine, even though I feel disrespected. It feels like they use humour as an excuse to push my boundaries, and then make me feel guilty for standing up for myself.

How do I deal with friends who make me the centre of their jokes and how can I set boundaries when they constantly minimise my feelings?

Hoping for your advice,

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