Want to feel closer to someone? Share the feels, not the facts.
We all long to be close to at least one person. (Though some of us may try to befriend everyone on the planet; no judgment.) According to a 2023 Pew Research poll, 53% of adults have 1 to 4 close friends, 38% have 5 or more, and 8% to 12 % have no close friends. So, how do we feel closer to people? A recent study published in Neuropsychologia found that it has everything to do with how we talk to each other.
The study, which looked at 42 same-sex friends, had them engage in conversations where they revealed emotional information and others that were merely fact-based. Researchers monitored them with brain scans and later interviewed them, asking how close they felt to their partner while they talked.
The study found........
