Socializing is an important part of life. It’s so important that people who prefer staying in rather than going out are often misunderstood. People who prefer to stay at home may be mistaken for being shy, introverted, or antisocial, but that’s not often the case.

“Shyness is fear of social judgment, and a preference for quiet is simply a matter of where one gets energy from,” Nick Bach, Psy.D., HSPP, a licensed clinical psychologist and founder of Grace Psychological Services in Louisville, Kentucky, tells Upworthy.

While some people feel energized by a night out, others feel drained. But that doesn’t mean they are lonely or in an unhealthy mental state.

“What matters here is that someone has the option to choose solitude if they feel like doing so and have the opportunity to be part of their community and take advantage of activities and other social opportunities as well,” Dr. Robert Dean Davies, MD, a board-certified psychiatrist at Chroma Wellness Center, also tells Upworthy.

Personality traits of people who prefer to stay home

Psychologists and therapists share more about the personality traits of people who prefer staying in.

Personality trait #1: They have strong self-awareness

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