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Motherhood Is Completely At Odds With A Career-Obsessed Society

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28.05.2026

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Motherhood Is Completely At Odds With A Career-Obsessed Society

Being a new mother isn’t something to be technocratically managed, but to be honored for the beautiful, ennobling, and soul-enhancing experience it is.

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“This whole career thing is really at odds with being a new mother,” a woman said in the privacy of my office. New to my team, she had just returned from maternity leave after her first child and was juggling first-time motherhood and a new, demanding career that pushed her to work long hours and take long business trips away from her newborn. I knew she was right, but it was the first time in many years of management that I had heard it stated so succinctly and powerfully.

What I experienced that day was illuminating for both of us. For me as a male professional, it justified what I had so often thought when having other conversations with female coworkers navigating pregnancies and motherhood. For her as a young female professional, it was obvious that she felt a burden lifted and could admit what so many other female professionals seek so desperately to resist, deny, or control — namely, that modern careerism and motherhood are in deep, perhaps irreconcilable tension.

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