Terry Real’s influence in the world of couples therapy is hard to overstate. A bestselling author, renowned social worker, and respected clinician, Real is known for blending emotional depth with clear-eyed pragmatism. He tells the truth, but always with compassion.

Early in the COVID-19 pandemic, Real hosted a virtual gathering for fellow therapists. His message—that we could adapt our clinical skills to meet the challenges of remote work—was both comforting and energizing. That moment stayed with me, and I recalled it again when I had the chance to interview him last fall, coinciding with the paperback release of his groundbreaking book US: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship.

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