My wife says she wants more affection, but whenever I try, she pulls away. No matter what I do, it never seems to be enough. I want to make our marriage stronger, but she is confusing me. How do I navigate mixed signals? – Left Or Right

Left Or Right – Have you asked her exactly what she means by needing more affection? There seems to be a significant difference between what men think affection is and what women think it is. She might just need a hug, a quick compliment or for you to clean the kitchen instead of her doing it. The issue is when everyone assumes their spouse is a mind reader, no one gets any clear answers. Sit down and talk with her about the state of your marriage. Discuss what your version of affection is versus hers. See what you two can agree on and let her know you genuinely hear her and want to meet her halfway. She must be willing to do some work, too. And if you continue to........

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