Is it weird that I follow some of my exes on social media and they follow me? I don’t have any hate or love one way or the other, but I like to follow them to see what they’re up to. I don’t really interact much, but sometimes I feel a certain way if I see them with another person. Just wondering if this is normal? – Screen Check

Screen Check – That’s the normal use of social media these days. To check on people’s lives without really being a part of them. So, no, it isn’t weird. The question you should be asking yourself is: Is it healthy? I would say no, not for your mental or emotional health. Most people end the relationship and go their separate ways without checking in ever again. Maybe the occasional “hello” if they see each other out in public. The exes that do stay in each other’s lives really only talk due to having children or business ties. I would double check your motives about why you follow them. Maybe there are lingering feelings to work out if you feel weird seeing them with another person. Dig deep, unroot the........

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