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Mary Killen

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Dear Mary / How do I tell my friend that hot food needs hot plates?

27.02.2025 20

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: should I tell people I’m WFB (Working from Barbados)?

15.01.2025 10

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Mary Killen

Notes on... / The unwritten rules of visitors books

Two things come to mind when I think about visitors books. The first is the memory of leaving the home of a low-profile and secretive single man...

08.01.2025 3

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Mary Killen

Notes on... / The unwritten rules of visitors books

Two things come to mind when I think about visitors books. The first is the memory of leaving the home of a low-profile and secretive single man...

08.01.2025 8

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: Can I regift an unwanted tin of sweets?

Q. A kind villager gave us a jolly circular tin of sweets for Christmas. We are both overweight and would normally have no compunction in simply...

06.01.2025 3

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Mary Killen

Notes on... / The unwritten rules of visitors books

Two things come to mind when I think about visitors books. The first is the memory of leaving the home of a low-profile and secretive single man...

03.01.2025 3

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary: How do I avoid my friend’s gropey partner?

Q. I have a dear friend who is in a newish relationship. The partner – whom I hardly know – recently visited my city, asked to stay, and groped me...

05.12.2024 4

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: How can I avoid a lunge on a date?

Q. I have been working in London as a receptionist in a private members’ club and consequently have had the opportunity to meet and chat to a...

24.11.2024 5

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / How do I get the treadmill hogs to move?

Q. I made a number of friends with other mothers when my sons were at school, and we have carried on meeting up for regular lunches. I can’t afford...

12.09.2024 2

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: How do I avoid my neighbours on holiday?

Q. We have some neighbours who we don’t mind at all – they are perfectly nice, just not part of our friendship group. We have heard they are...

01.09.2024 3

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: How do I keep my phone safe on the beach?

Q. My husband and I have just been on a wonderful long weekend abroad to a friend’s 60th birthday. We met lots of lovely new people over the three...

27.07.2024 1

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary / Dear Mary: Help! My teeth are too white

Q. I ride a bike from Chiswick to the City each morning. It is a ten-mile journey that takes 45 minutes and it is good for my weight and mental...

23.07.2024 1

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Mary Killen

Dear Mary: is it rude to listen to sport at a wedding?

Q. We live in the countryside, where the door is always open. Last week when it was sunny we had a drinks party in the garden. Despite our leaving...

15.07.2024 1

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Mary Killen