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When Life Stops: But Only for You

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23.04.2026

What Is a Chronic Illness?

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Serious illness is a deeply personal and intimate experience with existential reality.

Illness offers a possibility for reflection and grappling with important questions.

Possibilities for a life well lived remain during illness.

Co-authored by Mark Shelvock and Monika Mandoki, Ph.D.

Being ill is not simply a biological event, as it is an experience that unsettles our entire sense of being-in-the-world. When the body breaks down, something more than physiology is disrupted.

The future you had assumed—the one in which you would wake tomorrow more or less the same person you were yesterday, suddenly becomes uncertain. Plans collapse, roles dissolve, and the body you have largely ignored now demands your complete attention. A serious illness does not merely interrupt a life; it reorganizes life at its foundation.

Phenomenology, the philosophical tradition concerned with the structure of lived experience, offers a rich framework for understanding what this radical readjustment involves.1 Illness disrupts our lifeworld: the taken-for-granted background of embodied existence within which we move, relate, perceive, and generate meaning. When that background is disturbed, what surfaces is not only pain or physical limitation.

It is a profound confrontation with uncertainty, vulnerability, mortality, and the unsettling realization that the body possesses a kind of autonomous will—one that can, without warning, override every rational plan we have ever made.

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