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What Is the ‘Box Theory’? The Viral Dating Trend That Explains How Men View Women.

A relationship coach explains the viral theory behind why some men pursue commitment while keeping other women in situationships.

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Have you heard the idea that men categorize women into one of three boxes immediately upon meeting them? This concept, also called the box theory, has taken the internet by storm in recent years. Let’s explore this idea.

What Is the Box Theory of Dating?

Coined by Tinx, a popular lifestyle influencer, box dating describes the following theory: “When men meet you in a romantic setting, they put you in a box. Either wanna date you, they wanna sleep with you, or they want nothing to do with you.”

“It’s very difficult to shift from box to box, and your behavior doesn’t really affect what box you’re in,” Tinx states in her video. “So, if he meets you and he’s like, ‘I wanna date this girl,’ you could puke on his shoes and sleep with him on the first night, and it wouldn’t matter. Vice versa, if he meets you and he just wants to hook up, you could make him........

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