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This Simple Mindset Shift Could Make Your Dating Life So Much Better

Therapists explain how to stay optimistic about love while recognizing red flags, setting boundaries, and knowing when to walk away.

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You’ve heard of the hopeless romantic, but what about the hopeful romantic? This type of person is both a realist and a dreamer, and their positive mindset typically serves them well in love. Here’s what you should know about becoming a hopeful romantic—and how it will serve you well in your love life.

What Is a Hopeful Romantic?

According to Adrienne L. Marshall, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, “A hopeful romantic is someone who is optimistic but also realistic about the prospect of finding love.”

A hopeful romantic believes in romance but also takes the more sensible approach. When it comes to spotting red flags or handling common relationship issues, they’re practical, observant, and grounded, all while maintaining their confidence and positive outlook.

“A person who can maintain........

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