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When Terror Strikes One, It Scars Us All

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On the Pahalgam anniversary, Israelis stand shoulder‑to‑shoulder with India; two nations bound by grief, courage, and the unbroken will to live.

A Voice of Solidarity From Jerusalem to New Delhi

“Today, India marks one year since the barbaric terror attack in Pahalgam, Kashmir, where 26 innocent lives were lost. On behalf of Israel, I extend our deepest condolences to the families of the victims and to the people of India. We stand with you in grief and in solidarity.” With these words, Israeli Ambassador to India Reuven Azar opened his remembrance message; words that resonated far beyond diplomatic protocol. He continued with a truth that Israelis feel in their bones: “This pain is deeply familiar. Terror has no borders.”

Azar’s message set the tone for this anniversary. It was not simply a statement of sympathy. It was recognition of shared trauma, shared resilience, and a shared understanding of what it means to live under the shadow of terror yet refuse to be defined by it.

A Wound That Crossed Borders

One year ago, the quiet beauty of Pahalgam was shattered. Twenty‑six innocent civilians – families, pilgrims, ordinary people seeking rest and renewal – were murdered in a Pakistan‑backed terror attack that tore through the Kashmiri town and left a wound on the soul of India.

For Israelis, the news did not feel distant. It felt painfully familiar. The shock, the funerals, the empty chairs at dinner tables; these are experiences Israelis know too well. The grief of Pahalgam echoed the grief of countless Israeli communities that have endured similar horrors. The connection between the two nations is not abstract. It is lived. It is felt. It is understood without explanation.

Two Nations, One Grief

The anniversary of Pahalgam falls close to Yom HaZikaron, Israel’s Memorial Day for fallen soldiers and victims of terror. On that day, the entire country stops. Sirens rise over highways and cities. People step out of their cars and stand in silence. Parents place their hands on gravestones that should never have existed. It is a day when Israel remembers not only the dead, but the cost of being a free people in a dangerous world. Pahalgam carries the same weight for India. The victims were targeted not for what they did, but for who they were. Their deaths were meant to send a message of fear. Instead, they have become a message of unity and resilience.

When Israelis observe Yom HaZikaron, we say, “May their memory be a blessing.” In India, the families of Pahalgam express the same sentiment in their own way. Two nations, separated by geography but united by experience, understand something the world often forgets: terrorism is not random. It is intentional. It is ideological. It is evil. And it strikes at the very idea of peaceful coexistence.

The Contradictions of Geopolitics

Yet even as India and Israel confront this reality with clarity, the world around them often chooses ambiguity. The contradictions of geopolitics have never been sharper. The very state whose soil has nurtured groups like Lashkar‑e‑Taiba and Jaish‑e‑Mohammed now positions itself as a mediator between the United States and Iran. Pakistan speaks the language of diplomacy abroad while tolerating, enabling, or turning a blind eye to actors who destabilize its own region. This is the paradox of our era: the world is full of arsonists who insist on being treated as firefighters.

One nation’s “partner” is another nation’s existential threat. One nation’s “mediator” is another nation’s sponsor of violence. One nation’s “strategic ally” is another nation’s ideological adversary. How does a state claim to propagate peace while remaining locked in a perpetual ideological struggle with its neighbor? How does it speak of stability while allowing its soil to be used by organizations that reject stability entirely?

India and Israel have learned to see through this illusion. They understand that the world is not divided neatly between friends and enemies. It is divided between those who defend life and those who glorify death; between those who build and those who destroy; between those who mourn their dead and those who celebrate murder.

The Same Enemy, Different Battlefields

The ideology behind the Pahalgam attack is the same ideology that fueled the October 7 massacre in Israel. It is the same ideology that animates groups like Hamas, Lashkar‑e‑Taiba, Jaish‑e‑Mohammed, and others who reject coexistence, reject pluralism, and reject the right of others to live freely. Last year, when I wrote about Pahalgam, I noted the disturbing reports of Hamas representatives appearing alongside Pakistan‑based terror groups. Their goal was clear: to link the jihadist campaign in Kashmir with the violence in Gaza and southern Israel.

The helmets worn by the Pahalgam attackers reportedly carried cameras—an echo of the horrific recordings from October 7. The intent was the same: to turn murder into propaganda. This is not coincidence. It is convergence. It is collaboration. It is a shared ideology of destruction. India and Israel are fighting different battles, but the enemy is the same.

The Human Cost Behind the Headlines

Behind every statistic is a story. Behind every headline is a home. Behind every “victim count” is a family that will never be whole again. In Pahalgam, husbands and fathers were murdered in front of their families. Children watched their protectors fall. Mothers were left to gather the pieces of shattered lives. In Israel, the stories from October 7 are etched into our national memory. Families burned alive. Children were taken hostage. Entire communities erased in a single morning.

The grief is different in detail, but identical in essence. This is why Ambassador Azar’s message resonated so deeply. This is why India’s pain feels familiar to Israelis. This is why Israel’s pain feels familiar to Indians. We recognize each other’s wounds.

A Partnership Forged in Fire

India and Israel are not allies by accident. They are allies because history pushed them together. Both nations face enemies who deny their right to exist. Both confront ideologies that glorify death. Both endure global criticism for defending themselves. Both rely on resilience, not sympathy. Both understand that survival is not guaranteed; it is earned. This is why the India–Israel partnership is not transactional. It is existential. It is moral. It is rooted in shared experience.

When India stood with Israel after October 7, it was not a diplomatic gesture. It was recognition. It was solidarity. It was the voice of a nation that knows what it means to bury its own. And so, on this anniversary, Israelis stand with India not out of obligation, but out of kinship; out of a deep understanding that our stories, though written in different languages, rhyme in the same places.

Terrorism seeks to achieve two goals: to kill bodies and to break spirits. India and Israel refuse to allow either. Memory becomes a form of resistance. Remembrance becomes a declaration of identity. Commemoration becomes a promise: we will not be broken. Despite the grief, despite the contradictions of geopolitics, despite the cynicism of nations that speak peace while enabling violence, there remains a truth that terror cannot erase, goodness is stronger than hatred. Life is stronger than death. Hope is stronger than fear.

India and Israel are proof of this; two nations that have endured the worst of humanity and still choose to build, innovate, create, and dream. They refuse to surrender their future to those who worship destruction, and they understand the price of freedom yet choose it with clarity and conviction.

A Light That Darkness Cannot Extinguish

As we remember the victims of Pahalgam, we end not with despair, but with a verse that has carried us through centuries of hardship: The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? – (Psalm 27:1). May the souls of the victims be bound in the bond of everlasting life! May their memory strengthen the resolve of India and Israel to confront the darkness that took them!  And may the day come when remembrance is no longer born from tragedy, but from peace.

For all the families who carry the weight of loss with courage and grace; may the memories of your loved ones be a blessing and may healing find you gently and in its own time.


© The Times of Israel (Blogs)