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ADHD: The Hard Part Isn’t Focus—It’s Choosing the Station

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08.06.2026

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ADHD looks less like a shortage of attention than a struggle to regulate and aim it.

The wiring behind distraction also drives hyperfocus, “the forgotten frontier of attention.”

Creativity depends on the imagination network coupling with the brain’s executive control.

I think the medical establishment has attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) all wrong.

It hit me the other day in the shower: The truest description of the ADHD mind isn’t a deficit at all—it’s a radio. I’ve spent my career studying attention and creativity, and while I’ve never been formally diagnosed, I know this dial intimately, from the inside. Let me tell you what it actually feels like. I suspect a lot of my readers will relate.

When I finally lock onto something, the world narrows to a single bright band of signal. The room goes quiet, not because it’s silent but because I’ve stopped receiving it. Hours collapse into what feels like 20 minutes. Someone can say my name twice, and I won’t surface. I am not trying to concentrate; there is nothing effortful about it. I am simply, completely, there. People sometimes call this discipline. It isn’t. It’s closer to being pulled under.

That’s one half of my attention. The other half is the part nobody romanticizes: I often can’t choose which station to tune to in the first place. Using the language of Kierkegaard, I too often drown in the sea of possibility. I’ll sit down with 12 worthy things to do, and the dial just spins—a smear of half-caught signals, none of them resolving, a low anxious hum of everything-at-once. For me, and I suspect for so many of my readers, the trouble was never a shortage of attention. When I’m tuned in, I have more of it than almost anyone I know. The trouble is the tuning itself: choosing the frequency, and then leaving it........

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