My wheelchair makes me so jealous this time of year
It’s officially become both springtime and British Summer Time since we last spoke, and though everyone but the most miserable soul will be pleased with this development – the changing of the seasons being one of the most ordinary yet miraculous recurring events imaginable – the perking up of the climate has a dash of something bittersweet to it for those of us who are disabled. Especially for those of us to whom it happened recently, and all at once.
I’ve lived in a seaside city for the past 30 years, and I love it. Though not the outdoorsy type – to put it mildly – as soon as the sun made an appearance I could be found in the sea, on the shingle or, let’s be honest, more likely at a lovely pavement cafe table feeling the sea-breeze and appreciating how lucky I was to be here on a steaming hot day rather than sweating cobs in “That London”.
I was taken in for an emergency spinal operation the week before Christmas 2024, and was relatively fortunate to be in rehabilitation throughout the cold weather: free heating, Wi-Fi and adult nappies galore! I was sprung on 1 May 2025 and I remember the extreme glee I felt coming back to my lovely Art Deco flat near Hove seafront – maybe not quite so exquisite now the toilet door had been removed (a pervert’s paradise) and with both a hospital bed and a plastic bath-chair cluttering up my previously minimalist jewel-box of an apartment.
But I was so pleased to be home, away from the clamorous ward (“Eat more prunes!” a ward-mate would repeatedly shriek while I hung helplessly hoisted over a commode), that these were easily integrated. I powered through that........
