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From Strap-Ons To Cock Rings: The Best LGBTQ+ Sex Toys For People With Penises And Vulvas

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11.06.2026

From Strap-Ons To Cock Rings: The Best LGBTQ Sex Toys For People With Penises And Vulvas

Because the best way to celebrate Pride is pleasure.

We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, HuffPost UK may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

Pride started as a protest, there’s no disputing that fact. And while that sentiment needs to continue today more than ever, allow me to present something radical: pleasure is resistance.

While of course it’s important to recognise and shout about the myriad ways queer people continue to be excluded from rights and society, if there’s one thing that’s going to stick it to the man, it’s us having a banging good time.

And I mean that literally: partying and drinking, duh, but also chasing that orgasm high.

So you can get your socks off this Pride month, whether you have a penis or vulva, I’ve consulted sexologist and therapist for Passionerad Sofie Roos to help me round up the best LGBTQ sex toys to shop now.

Best LGBTQ sex toys at a glance:

Best strapless strap: Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On

Best prostate massager: LELO Hugo 2

Best penis masturbator: Fleshjack Boys Diego Sans Sex Machine Butt

Best clit sucker: Womanizer Premium 2

Best vibrating butt plug: Lovense Hush 2

What are the different types of LGBTQ sex toys?

A sex toy is a sex toy, meaning any type can work for straight people and queer folk alike (if you get creative enough), according to Roos.

“The most common queer sex toy categories are basically the same as for straight people, which includes:

Dildos in all its shapes, sizes and materials,

Anal toys such as butt plugs,

Couples’ vibrators and long-distance sex toys, even though prostate massagers, strap-ons and harnesses always are a bit extra trendy and relevant among the LGBTQ community!”

What to look for when buying a sex toy as an LGBTQ person

“Do you want the toy to focus on the clitoris, give vaginal stimulation, stimulate the G-spot, your penis, balls, anal, the prostate, nipples or something else, and do you value how it looks or only how it feels?” Roos recommends asking yourself.

“Look for toys made out of bod- safe materials, such as medical silicone, glass or stainless steel,” Roos adds. “Pay attention to user reviews, try to pick well- established retailers and brands, and go for one premium toy rather than two or three budget options.”

“You don’t need to go for the most popular sex toys, but rather you should try to find something that feels right for your body and identity, and looks like it will help you discover what gives you pleasure,” Roos emphasises. A good sign you’ll like something is if the mere sight of it excites you.

Keep reading to find our round up of the best LGBTQ to shop, and our tips for how to figure out which you’ll enjoy the most.

19 best LGBTQ sex toys in 2026

LELO Hugo 2 Remote Control Rechargeable Prostate Massager

Best for anal vibrations

Say it with me: the perineum deserves more attention! For double anal stimulation akin to a rabbit vibrator (but for the butt) this LELO number surrounds your P-spot with as much attention as you can ask for. That curved arm sits inside the backside, while the other arm stretches along your entire underside – and all controlled by the handy motion sensor remote control. Hand it over to your partner, so they can surprise you with one of its eight vibration modes, or take the reins yourself as you buzz towards O-town.

We love: Motion-controlled remoteWe don't love: The remote is battery-powered.

Features:Vibration modes: 8Material: SiliconePower: RechargeableInsertable inches: 3.4 inchesWaterproof: Yes.

njoy Pure Fun Stainless Steel P-Spot Butt Plug

Best non-vibrating butt plug

“This well-built and luxurious butt plug made out of exclusive stainless steel is built to stimulate the prostate, whether you're using it passively, penetrating yourself with it, or having hands-free fun by controlling your muscles and squeezing around the plug,” says Roos. While the shape of this plug might make it a little intense for beginners, the weight of it will be ideal for more experienced anal aficionados, as the cold metal presses against your P-spot for a potent dose of pleasure.

We love: Easy to clean and that loop handle makes removal easy as pieWe don't love: Might be too girthy for beginners.

Features:Vibration modes: NoneMaterial: Stainless steelPower: NoneInsertable inches: 3.4 inchesWaterproof: Yes.

Best glass lesbian toy

Sometimes double-ended dildos don't get you anywhere: they're too rigid, they feel like you're miles apart, and your only option is to scissor if either of you wants any enjoyment whatsoever. To switch things up a little, this glass (hear........

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