My sister and I have always been inseparable, but my husband says our closeness is inappropriate because I tell her things about our marriage. He says it feels like she’s the third person in our relationship. I feel torn between the two people I love most. How do I set boundaries without losing either one? – Everyone Play Nice

Everyone Play Nice – Marriage is a private yet public union. I can see where your husband is coming from because not all things in a marriage are meant to be shared on the family level. That can often hurt a marriage by giving too many details to family and it can cause their opinions of the other spouse to change in a negative way. But I see where you’re coming from because you just want someone to be a sounding board. So, I really think the person that’s going to have to change is you. Start to decipher which details are important for her to know and which you need to keep........

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