I have been a widow for a few years, but there’s someone I’m interested in! We click and our conversation flows. He has asked about my late husband because he was a huge part of my life and all my experiences are attached to him. I don’t want to disrespect my late husband or wipe his memory away, but I don’t want to seem like I’m stuck in the past. Should I take down our old photos together or not talk about my late husband? – Stuck Between Past & Present

Stuck Between Past & Present – One of my favorite sayings is “We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.” Anybody that’s going to date you must make room for the fact that you did have a husband before, and a story comes with that. It doesn’t mean you’re carrying past baggage into the new relationship, but it means you do have prior marriage wisdom. I love that this new guy is curious about your late husband. That shows a lot of respect for what........

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