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5 Warning Signs Your Partner Is Emotionally Neglecting You, According to an Expert

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Emotional neglect is one of the most confusing experiences in romantic relationships. Many people don’t even realize what’s happening until it’s too late—and by then, the damage has been done. 

And when you do pick up on the red flags, your entire perception of your connection shifts, and your rose-tinted glasses slip. It can be disorienting, to say the least.

Here are five signs of emotional neglect in a romantic relationship. 

1. Your Partner Listens to Respond, Not to Hear

If your partner appears to listen but doesn’t seem to actually hear you—or try to understand your perspective—they might be emotionally neglecting you.

“When I see this in relationships, I’m looking at a dynamic where one partner is seeking to get their own need for attention and validation met while disregarding their partner’s need to be seen and known,” Katie Rose, LCSW, Manhattan-based psychotherapist with over a decade of experience working with individuals and couples in NYC, told VICE. “It sounds innocuous, but it’s actually........

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