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Aryeh Lazar

Aryeh Lazar

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Cute Story: Why are little fish always so self-confident about what is in front of them?

A little fish swims around in the ocean feeling self-confident about the dangers in front of him. Little fish have no eyelids. Their eyes are always...

16.07.2026 40

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Aryeh Lazar

When you have nowhere else to turn, who do you turn to?

When a Jew is confronted with a challenge, he does not rely on himself. Your natural tendency is relying only on yourself. “Kochem V’otzem Yadi”...

14.07.2026 50

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Why does your life become emotionally challenged when you focus on what is wrong?

Modern life trains you to notice problems, pressure and negativity all day long. This leads you to frustration and emotional exhaustion. G-d created...

09.07.2026 40

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The more you appreciate what HaShem gives you, the calmer and happier you become

Many people spend their lives focused only on what they are missing. What is not working out? What am I lacking? Why is life difficult? But when your...

07.07.2026 50

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Aryeh Lazar

The more you focus on growth rather than perfection, the calmer and happier you become!

Are you carrying around feelings of disappointment and failure? You may be replaying your mistakes over and over again in your mind. Why did I fail?...

02.07.2026 60

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Aryeh Lazar

You do not need to carry the emotional weight of the entire world

Sometimes, you may feel emotionally drained. At these times, your mind cannot rest. You constantly absorb: news, stress, pressure, conflict and the...

30.06.2026 60

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Why do you always feel pressure to prove yourself?

You may feel trapped inside a never-ending race. You may feel pressure to: succeed more, earn more, accomplish more and gain the approval of others....

25.06.2026 50

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Aryeh Lazar

Why do you feel so mentally exhausted?

Many people today rarely experience inner quiet. Even during moments of rest, your mind races and becomes dominated by: worries, pressure,...

23.06.2026 70

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Aryeh Lazar

You rush through the day yet rarely find calm inside. Why?

A calmer mind begins by slowing down inside. Many people live with constant inner pressure. The mind races from one worry to another. You rush through...

18.06.2026 50

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Aryeh Lazar

A friend stands with you during your battles in life

You are not fighting your battles in life alone. Many people carry heavy burdens including: Stress, Fear, Pressures, Loneliness, Disappointment. You...

16.06.2026 60

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By speaking positively you will experience your life positively

The way you speak affects the way you experience life. By speaking positively, you will experience your life positively. Many people spend the day...

11.06.2026 50

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Why are you feeling empty when your life seems to be Good?

People today are more comfortable than ever before. More entertainment. More convenience. More technology. More possessions. But so many people today...

09.06.2026 70

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There Is Meaning Hidden Inside Your Struggles

“The Torah of HaShem is perfect; it restores the soul.” (Tehillim 19: 8) Life often feels confusing. Why is this happening? Why do I have these...

04.06.2026 70

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You Do Not Pass Through Life Alone

“Even though I walk through the valley of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me.” — Psalm  23: 4 You may be walking through life feeling...

02.06.2026 40

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The Torah trait that brings you happiness and a life of satisfaction

Every morning a Jew wakes up and begins his day with a prayer of gratitude: Modeh Ani Lefanecha – I thank you living and eternal King for you...

28.05.2026 60

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Why do people today have more yet are less happy?

“Happy are those who fear Hashem.” (Psalm 112: 1) This sounds simple. But today happiness has become surprisingly difficult. More conveniences,...

26.05.2026 100

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What You Focus on Shapes Your World

“Zeh hayom asah Hashem, nagilah v’nismecha bo.” “This is the day Hashem made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” (Psalm 118:24) King David...

21.05.2026 50

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Torah Gives You a Calmer Way to Experience Life

Many people think Torah only teaches you what to do. But Torah also teaches you how to think, how to respond, and even how to experience life. Two...

19.05.2026 40

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Aryeh lazar

Train yourself to see the good – and life becomes good!

Many people train themselves to notice what is wrong with life. What is missing? What is frustrating? What did not work out? What people did to them?...

14.05.2026 80

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Aryeh lazar

Torah teaches you how to manage life’s ups and downs

Your life constantly changes. Sometimes things go well. Sometimes things become difficult. One day you feel confident and successful. The next day you...

12.05.2026 50

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Aryeh lazar

Everything That Happens to You Is Truly Good!

Learn to love your blessings. This is the highest form of Positive Thinking. If you did not sleep last night you would not be yourself. You could not...

07.05.2026 50

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Aryeh lazar

Learning to See the Good Even When Life Seems Difficult

Most people judge their lives according to one simple standard: When things go well, life is good. When things become difficult, something is wrong....

05.05.2026 70

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