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Men’s Work and Juneteenth

Juneteenth marks the day when enslaved people in Texas were finally told they were free. It is a holiday about delayed freedom, but also about what...

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The Conversation Liberal Parents Still Aren’t Having With Their Sons

There are mixed reviews of the UFC spectacle that took place on the White House south lawn for the President’s eightieth birthday. And then there...

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What the Hell Is Masculinity?

Two young fish are swimming along when an older fish passes by and asks, “How’s the water?” The young fish nod politely and swim on. A few...

15.06.2026 40

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Grasshopper Men (Parashat Sh’lach)

Our ancestors are standing at the edge of possibility. They have been freed from Egypt. They have received Torah at Sinai. They have been shaped,...

12.06.2026 50

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Shalom Brothers: The Male Capacity to Nurture (B’haalotekhah)

When I became a father for the first time, like many men, I had no idea what I was doing. Short of helping create an actual human being, I had no real...

04.06.2026 50

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Shalom Brothers: Suspicion Is Not Love (Naso)

Parashat Naso contains one of the most difficult passages in the Torah: the ritual of the Sotah, the woman suspected of adultery. There is no way to...

29.05.2026 40

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Shalom Brothers: The Mountain Over Our Heads (Shavuot)

The Torah’s account of Sinai is not gentle. Neither is my account of growing into manhood. Much like our ancestors’ experience receiving the Torah...

21.05.2026 30

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A Man Is Not A Number (Bamidbar)

The Book of Numbers begins, unsurprisingly, by counting. At the opening of Bamidbar (lit. In the wilderness), God tells Moses to take a census of the...

15.05.2026 70

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The Devil Wears Football Cleats

My boys and I love going to the movies together. It is one of the great blessings of fatherhood: sitting in the dark next to your children, eating...

13.05.2026 50

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When Money Becomes Manhood (Behar-Behukotai)

Men are often taught to treat money as proof of manhood. Not just as a practical necessity. As evidence. Evidence that you are competent, desirable,...

08.05.2026 60

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Shalom Brothers: What Men Catch (Emor)

Shlomo Bardin, the visionary founder of Brandeis-Bardin, famously taught that Judaism is “caught, not taught.” He was right, and also only half...

04.05.2026 70

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Dr. Robby Needs More Than a Motorcycle

In 2019, while going through my divorce, I learned how quietly a man can disappear inside his own life. I was working, parenting, and trying to be...

28.04.2026 60

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Shalom Brothers: Dancing Through the Darkness (Acharei-Mot/Kedoshim)

Grief is one of the places where masculinity most often betrays men. Not because men do not feel deeply. They do. But many men are trained to...

24.04.2026 60

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Shalom Brothers: The Labor Men Still Don’t See (Tazria)

There is a particular kind of loneliness that can take root inside a marriage not because love has vanished, but because labor has gone unseen. A wife...

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The Jewish Man After October 7

There is a reason a group like a new Jewish Defense League (JDL) can sound compelling right now. It has emerged in a moment when Jewish fear is not...

16.04.2026 60

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Shalom Brothers: When Men Worship Heat Instead of Light (Parshat Shmini)

There is a certain kind of man our culture still knows how to applaud. He is bold. Unfiltered. A little dangerous. He says what others will not say,...

10.04.2026 50

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Passover and the Men We’re Trying to Become

Passover is often framed as a story about freedom from oppression, and it is. But it is also a story about what happens after freedom is handed to...

06.04.2026 70

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Searching for Our Spiritual Crumbs: A Passover Reflection for Men

If you saw someone moving through a dark house with a candle, searching for crumbs, it might look strange. On the night before Passover, though, that...

31.03.2026 70

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Shalom Brothers: I Just Called To Say, ‘I Love You.’ (Vayikra)

One of my favorite songs is Stevie Wonder’s “I Just Called to Say I Love You.” What makes it so good is that the song refuses to wait for a...

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Shalom Brothers: Let the Record Show That We Gathered (Vayakhel-Pikudei)

Two words name this double portion: Vayakhel–Pekudei. They don’t sound dramatic. They are. Vayakhel means and he gathered—not that Moses...

13.03.2026 70

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Shalom Brothers: Ki Tisa – Being Free to Create the Life You Want

In Ki Tisa, the Torah interrupts big leadership with small, stubborn truths: you have worth before you produce, limits before you collapse, and...

07.03.2026 100

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Shalom Brothers: Men and Masks (Tetzaveh)

Men are often met as uniforms before they are met as human beings. We read the “outside” first: the job title, the competence, the calm voice, the...

27.02.2026 90

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Shalom Brothers: Trumah – What Men Have to Offer

Men are starving for sanctuary—and many of us don’t know it until we try to rest and can’t. We live as if “safe” is a luxury item: a week...

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