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Easy ways to be the houseguest everyone wants back

Want to be a better houseguest? These simple etiquette tips can help you respect your host’s home, make their stay easier and leave a great impression

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Staying at someone else’s home can be a wonderful way to spend time together without the expense of a hotel. But being a good houseguest takes a little more than showing up with an overnight bag and a cheerful attitude. Even close friends and family can have different routines, boundaries and expectations at home, so a few thoughtful habits can make the visit more comfortable for everyone.

The good news is that houseguest etiquette doesn’t have to be complicated. Much of it comes down to communicating clearly, paying attention to what your host needs and making an effort not to create extra work for them. You don’t have to completely change your personality or follow every household routine perfectly. A little awareness can go a long way.

A report by Reader’s Digest suggests thinking beyond the visit itself. A small gift when you arrive and a thank-you note afterward can show that you appreciate the effort your host made to welcome you. These gestures don’t need to be elaborate or expensive. In many cases, the thought behind them matters more.

If you want to make a good impression the next time you stay with friends or family, these habits are a good place to start.

Confirm your arrival and departure plans before you arrive

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One of the easiest ways to be a considerate houseguest is to make sure your host knows exactly when you’re coming and when you plan to leave. Reader’s Digest recommends discussing your arrival and departure dates ahead of time rather than treating someone’s home as an open-ended place to stay. That gives your host a chance to plan around your visit instead of wondering when you’ll show up or how long you’ll be there.

It can be especially helpful to communicate if your schedule changes. Maybe your flight is delayed, you’re running late on the road or you’ve decided to stay an extra night. Rather than leaving your host guessing, send a quick message with the update.........

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