When faced with infertility, building a family as an LGBTQ individual or couple, or choosing to become a single mother by choice, many people seek paths that preserve a biological connection to their future child. This instinct for genetic continuity often leads them to consider egg or sperm donation before exploring options like adoption or even embryo donation. Donor conception offers the possibility of a genetic link, and frequently, the profound experiences of pregnancy, childbirth, and early bonding—experiences that are deeply intertwined with many people's understanding of what it means to become a parent.

Choosing donor conception reflects a human desire to intertwine genetic heritage with nurturing relationships. Those utilizing donor sperm and eggs overwhelmingly value love, care, protection, and devotion. Nevertheless, the emphasis on a genetic connection introduces complex social and psychological implications that affect both parents and donor-conceived people. For the parent, there might be a desire to pass along one's ancestry, and to have a biological continuity, sometimes along with the experience of carrying and bringing life into the world. For a donor-conceived person, while understanding that their parents are the ones who raise, protect, nurture, love, and care for them, the unknown biological connection can also shape their identity, sense of belonging, and self-understanding. Genetic connections can influence how individuals see themselves within their families and across generations.

The psychological significance of genetic ties is deeply rooted in individual and cultural narratives about kinship. However, sometimes people believe that acknowledging genetic connections marginalizes other essential........

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