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A Son’s Tribute

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07.07.2026

On the 16th of May 2026, Kashmir lost one of its quiet scholars, and our family lost its guiding light. More than forty days have now passed since my father, Abdul Rauf Fazili, known in literary circles as Ibne Qadeer, departed from this world. The passage of time has not lessened the void he left behind, rather it has deepened our appreciation of a life lived with dignity, humility and unwavering devotion to knowledge. A great conversationalist who had a considerable knowledge about political, social and literary issues, belonged to a distinguished lineage of learning. He was a direct descendant of the celebrated Kashmiri historian Maulvi Hassan Shah, whose monumental Tarikh-i-Hassan continues to be regarded as one of the greatest chronicles ever written on the history of Kashmir. To inherit such a legacy is one thing, to preserve and enrich it is quite another. My father chose the harder path.

The intellectual inheritance did not end with Maulvi Hassan Shah. It was lovingly nurtured by my grandfather, Abdul Qadeer Fazili, a legendary teacher, preacher and mentor from village Gamroo in Bandipore. For decades, our ancestral home at Gamroo was not merely a family residence—it was a place of learning where relatives, neighbours and countless young minds came to seek religious guidance, moral instruction and wisdom. Such was its atmosphere that my late uncle, Mansoor Fazili, affectionately christened our sprawling ancestral home “Zindan-e-Zeest”—The Prison of Life—a name filled with irony, affection and philosophical reflection, for it was within those walls that generations found freedom through knowledge.My grandfather -“Dadaji” believed that education was not confined to books, it was a way of living. His routine was unwavering, his meals simple and measured. It was perhaps this extraordinary discipline that blessed him with a long and healthy life of nearly one hundred and one years. He would often visit the schools and speak to the students during the morning assembly sessions. These sessions were far more than routine addresses—they were inspiring lessons on life, values, discipline, and the importance of building strong character.

Even in his nineties, he remained an avid reader, proving that the pursuit of knowledge has no age. Yet alongside his discipline lived a wonderful sense of humour. Whenever someone respectfully picked up his shoes or slippers to place them neatly aside, he would mischievously ask, “Were your hands washed before touching them?” The room would erupt in laughter. His authority was never intimidating, it was softened by wit, kindness and affection.It was in this remarkable household that my Dad, Abdul Rauf Fazili, was raised. The values that defined his own life—his humility, integrity, scholarship, simplicity and devotion to learning—were not acquired overnight. They were quietly inherited from a father who taught by example and from a home where books were treasured, faith was practiced with sincerity, and knowledge was regarded as the greatest inheritance one generation could leave to the next.

The influence of that extraordinary household extended far beyond our own family. In the words of eminent poet, scholar and former civil servant Ayaz Rasool Nazki, my father spent some of his college years with the Nazki family, where he tutored the young Ayaz. Looking back, Ayaz Sahib fondly remembered him as a strict teacher who believed in the........

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