menu_open Columnists
Jessica Ghitis

Jessica Ghitis

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

We use cookies to provide some features and experiences in QOSHE

More information  .  Close

He Fumbled Me Like a Nuclear Negotiation

Moving to Los Angeles ten years ago hit me like a nuclear bomb. I had just been through my first round with Alcoholic Ex-Boyfriend (for those who have...

27.05.2026 50

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

Allyship won’t flirt with you from across the bar

Spanish Guy and I walked out of a bar on Valencia Street, hands brushing, almost holding. I like a guy to make the first move. The sounds of...

21.05.2026 50

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

I Want Israel to Be a Guy from Oklahoma

In the first few months of 2020, I dated a Regular Guy from Oklahoma. Or Wisconsin. He may have actually been from Nebraska. He was definitely...

14.05.2026 60

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

Things Not to Say on Dates or On Television

I was running late, which is unlike me, but work had thrown me into a week of community engagements and television interviews I was unprepared—and...

10.05.2026 60

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

Forgetting Your First Love/First Country You Flee

I didn’t know it at the time, but I met my first real love when I was fifteen. He was tall and confident, that was my first impression of him. We...

29.04.2026 70

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

How to Tell if You’re the Other Woman

One thing I wasn’t prepared for in dating was a man’s marital status. I felt good about my ability to spot fuckbois and their vices. I didn’t...

25.04.2026 70

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

He Said “Let’s Be Friends” the Day We Bombed Iran

He didn’t say that, but it’s a much more appealing headline than “I don’t think we’re a long-term match.” I was getting a haircut, telling...

08.04.2026 60

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis

Is Israel My Alcoholic Ex-Boyfriend?

I’ve been trying to figure out my relationship with Israel, and unfortunately, the closest comparison is my alcoholic ex-boyfriend. My ex wasn’t a...

02.04.2026 70

The Times of Israel (Blogs)

Jessica ghitis