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The ultimate green flag isn’t on your dating profile. It’s in your kitchen. Chicago DJ and house music aficionado CTRLZORA on why cooking for someone says more about you than any app ever could.

Zora DeShea has spent her career reading rooms. As CTRLZORA, Chicago DJ, producer, curator, and keeper of house music’s Black and queer roots, she knows that the real energy of any space lives in what’s unspoken. Turns out, she applies the same discernment to dating.

“You have all the time in the world to curate an online........

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