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What Is Digital Jealousy? The Relationship Problem Social Media Keeps Making Worse.

A matchmaker says digital jealousy often comes from uncertainty, assumptions, and unclear social media boundaries.

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With the rise of social media, many daters have noticed an uptick in digital jealousy—and often for good reason. Many people use social media and technologies as tools for cheating or seeking romantic validation. This behavior can destroy a relationship and cause just as much damage as physical cheating.

However, digital jealousy isn’t always grounded in reality. Our minds are known to fill in the blanks with worst-case-scenarios, especially when we’ve been conditioned to suspect ill intent.

What Is Digital Jealousy?

Digital jealousy is exactly as it sounds: jealousy stemming from digital interactions and social media use. 

“Digital jealousy is one of the major issues in relationships that did not exist a few decades ago,” says Brie Temple, COO & Chief Matchmaker at Tawkify. “It is the type of worry or insecurity that results from events taking place on our phone or social media, not from our personal life........

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