It’s Never Too Late to Wake Up: A Plea to the Jewish Boomers I Love
Let’s skip the pleasantries. Jewish Americans are under siege — not in the abstract, historical, “never forget” sense that lets you nod gravely at a Yom HaShoah ceremony and then go back to brunch. Right now. Today. Synagogues operate behind blast-proof barriers. Jewish students need security escorts to get to class. “Zionist” has become the socially acceptable way to say the thing polite society won’t let people say anymore.
And underneath all of it — underneath the campus mobs and the congressional cowardice and the dinner-party antisemitism dressed up as political commentary — is the thing nobody wants to name plainly: terrorism. October 7th was not ancient history. The people who carried it out and the regimes that funded it are still operational, still motivated, and still celebrating. There are people who do not want to argue with us. They want to kill us. And too many of you are sleepwalking through it because you’re too busy doom-scrolling MSNBC to notice.
So hear me when I tell you: this is not a partisan hit piece. I am not here to sell you on the Republican Party. I am not asking you to love Donald Trump. I am not even asking you to like him.
I’m asking you to stop letting him live rent-free in your head while your house burns down around you.
This Isn’t Your Parents’ Democratic Party. It’s Not Even Yours Anymore.
I get it. You came of age politically in a world where the Democratic Party was the natural home for Jewish Americans. Civil rights. Social justice. Tikkun olam. That party earned your loyalty, and for decades that loyalty made sense.
But here’s the thing: a lot of you are still living life like you’re stuck in the first season of The West Wing, convinced that if you just quote Toby Ziegler hard enough the grown-ups will walk back into the room. They aren’t coming. Aaron Sorkin doesn’t write the Democratic Party anymore. TikTok does.
The Democratic Party of 2026 is a party where “from the river to the sea” is chanted at the convention’s perimeter and met with shrugs from its interior. Where members of Congress with documented histories of antisemitic rhetoric chair committees and collect endorsements from leadership. Where “Zionist” is a slur deployed with impunity in progressive spaces that would never tolerate equivalent language about any other minority group. Where the largest campus protest movement in a generation was aimed squarely at the only Jewish state on earth — and the party’s institutional response ranged from tepid to sympathetic.
You know all of this. You’ve seen the clips, read the headlines, watched the encampments spring up at your grandchildren’s universities. And yet.
And yet you share the memes. You hashtag the hashtags. You trot out the same talking points at Shabbat dinner. Because Trump.
Hear me: your hatred of one man is not a political strategy. It is a liability. And right now, your community cannot afford the luxury of your emotional reflexes masquerading as principled politics.
The Horseshoe Is Real, and You’re Standing in the Middle of It
Horseshoe theory — the idea that the far left and far right curve toward each other at their extremes — used to be a poli-sci abstraction. It isn’t abstract anymore. It’s Tuesday.
The far right has its Jew-haters. We know them. They carry tiki torches and post manifesto-length screeds about “replacement.” They are grotesque. They are dangerous. And they are easy to identify, which is precisely why your progressive Facebook feed has no trouble condemning them.
But the far left has its own version, and it’s wearing a better costume. It wraps its antisemitism in the language of “anti-colonialism” and “liberation.” It doesn’t say it hates Jews — it says it hates “Zionists,” and then defines every Jew who has ever set foot in a synagogue as one. It doesn’t call for pogroms — it calls for “intifada,” which, for those keeping score at home, is the same thing with better PR.
The enemies are closing in from both sides. And if you can only see the threat from one direction because you’ve oriented your entire political compass around a single man you despise, you are not paying attention. You are choosing not to pay attention. And that choice has consequences that extend far beyond your voting booth.
I See You. I Need You to See Yourself.
To the woman on Facebook — you know who you are — who shares a “Stand With Israel” frame on her profile picture on Monday and by Wednesday is reposting memes from pages peddling conspiracy theories about shadowy networks of powerful people controlling the government and the media. You don’t notice the throughline because the memes have a blue-team aesthetic and the word “Trump” in them, so they must be fine. They are not fine. You are sharing antisemitic tropes with a Democratic Party filter on them, and the algorithm is too happy to keep serving them up. “But Trump was in the files!” you say, as if Jeffrey Epstein’s flight logs are a partisan gotcha and not a bipartisan horror. Take a breath. Look at what you’re actually amplifying. Please.
To the gentleman at the Passover seder — the one who, between bites of brisket, assured the table that antisemitism on the left will just disappear, like magic, the moment Netanyahu is no longer in power. Sir. The progressive activist class that has the fate of the Democratic Party by the balls does not actually give a shit about the nuances of Israeli coalition politics. They are not sitting in a Brooklyn walk-up debating the finer points of judicial reform or the merits of the death penalty. Their position, stated plainly and repeatedly and on camera, is that Israel should not exist at all. Bibi is not the problem they have. Israel is the problem they have. A Jewish state — any Jewish state, led by anyone, governed by any coalition — is the problem they have. You just read the part of the Haggadah about how in every generation they rise up to destroy us. Did you think that was a metaphor? Because your grandchildren are living it in real time on campuses funded by your alumni donations, and you called it free speech.
To my former colleague — the one who recoiled at the idea that Jewish voters might need to coalesce behind a common-sense moderate like Marco Rubio in 2028, and countered with breathless excitement that “a lot of people” in her mahjong group of seventy-somethings in Boca were buzzing about Josh Shapiro. With respect: your mahjong group is not a focus group. Josh Shapiro is a fine governor. He does not have a path to the Democratic nomination in a primary electorate that has moved so far left on Israel that he would be forced to either abandon his positions or be abandoned by the base. If you think the same activist class that ran Kamala Harris’s campaign is going to rally behind a proudly Jewish, vocally pro-Israel moderate from Pennsylvania, I have a bridge in Brooklyn I’d like to sell you. The question isn’t whether Shapiro is a good candidate in theory. The question is whether the Democratic Party as currently constituted would ever let him be one in practice. And if you’re honest with yourself — truly honest — you already know the answer.
Your Politics Is Not Your Identity
Here’s the part that’s hard to say, so I’ll just say it.
If your political affiliation has become so central to your sense of self that you cannot evaluate it critically — if being a Democrat is not a choice you make but a thing you are — then something has gone wrong. And I’d gently suggest that what’s gone wrong is not political. It’s spiritual.
Judaism is not the Democratic Party. The Democratic Party is not Judaism. There was a time when the overlap was significant enough that it was easy to confuse the two. That time is over.
You are the descendants of people who survived pogroms and camps and inquisitions and exiles. You carry within you a tradition that is four thousand years old — a tradition that has outlasted every empire that ever tried to destroy it. That identity does not belong to a political party. It does not answer to a cable news network. It does not fit on a bumper sticker. And it certainly does not belong to a fictional White House staffed by Aaron Sorkin archetypes who stopped existing, if they ever did, around the time the first iPhone shipped.
If your politics has become your religion, it may be time to reconnect with your actual one.
Vote Strategically. Think Clearly. Wake Up.
I am not telling you to become a Republican. I am telling you that partisan allegiance, for Jews, is a luxury we can no longer afford. Not when the threats are bipartisan. Not when the stakes are existential.
Vote for the candidate who will protect your community. Vote for the candidate who will stand up to antisemitism when it’s politically inconvenient — not just when it comes from the other team. Vote for the person, not the party. And for the love of everything sacred, stop letting your feelings about Donald Trump substitute for a coherent political strategy for Jewish survival.
The enemies are real. They are organized. They are in your children’s classrooms and your grandchildren’s social media feeds and the halls of Congress and the faculty lounges of every elite university in this country.
It’s never too late to wake up.
But it’s getting later than you think.
