When I write about the threats to relationships, I’m often struck by the feedback from readers who say these insights help illuminate what quietly tears connections apart. Relationships rarely end in dramatic explosions; they wither slowly under the weight of everyday neglect, misunderstandings, or unspoken pain.

Considering the high percentage of romantic relationships that seem to carry unknown expiration dates, it’s clear that staying vigilant about the small, insidious cracks is crucial. The following three “silent killers” may not seem evident initially, but they are often at the heart of what makes love unravel.

Take Ellie and Jake. Ellie couldn’t shake the bitterness........

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