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The 13 Best Anal Sex Toys, From Prostate Massagers To Butt Plugs

For prostate, A-spot, and perineum stimulation.

I’m sure you’re already aware of this, but there has been an unfortunate assumption batting around that men who like anal sex are gay. Well, I’m here today to prove them wrong.

Of course, the majority of gay men enjoy anal sex, but it’s by no means limited to that particular segment of the population.

Women, men, and non-binary folk of all sexualities can enjoy anal sex – and there’s no reason why they shouldn’t. If it feels good, do it, I say!

And while a finger, a penis, and a tongue can go a long way in the backdoor department, there are also a ton of tools you can use to unlock the underrated pleasure hub.

But here’s something you might not know: although porn would have you think otherwise, you can’t just dive into using the biggest, girthiest anal dildo on the market.

Full-on penetrative anal sex can take four to six weeks to build up to, according to anal surgeon and founder of Bespoke Surgical, Dr Evan Goldstein, because (duh!) it’s a muscle that requires training just like any other.

So depending on whether you’re an anal aficionado or a backdoor beginner, we’ve rounded up the best anal sex toys for every kind of experience level.

Plus, we’ve consulted a sexologist for her tips on how to use them. Keep reading to find out!

Best anal sex toys at a glance:

Smile Makers Collection The Neighbor

Lovehoney Basics Anal Beads

Lovehoney Jewelled Metal Butt Plug

What are the types of anal sex toys?

If you’re completely new to backdoor play, you might be wondering the options you have available to you.

Good news is you have a whole smorgasbord to choose from, according to Sofie Roos, sexologist and therapist at Passionerad.

“Butt plugs are designed to be inserted and worn in place, which gives a feeling of fullness and pressure. It’s also an amazing way to prepare before anal sex.”

“You can buy butt plugs in a variety of sizes, materials and with different features, such as with vibrations for anal orgasms, with tails for roleplaying, with a small diamond in the end.”

“There are also anal dildos that are designed to penetrate the ass in a safe and comfortable way, often with a slightly bent shape to stimulate the prostate,” says Roos.

Prostate vibrators and anal vibrators

“Other common anal sex toys are prostate vibrators that give P-spot orgasms for men, or general anal vibrators that give a deep and intense feeling,” she says.

“Anal beads – a series of connected beads that you insert one at a time and then slowly pull out – are also popular,” Roos adds.

“And last but not least, we have anal hooks, which is a sex toy for more advanced BDSM sex that for example let you discover different kinds of bondage.”

What to look for in an anal sex toy

Anal sex is supposed to be fun, but it’s also important to think about safety.

When shopping for an anal sex toy, look for anal-specific toys, and features such as:

A wide base: “This is essential for safe usage as it prevents the toy from being inserted too far,” says Roos. “The ass can actually ‘suck’ in toys, and if they don’t have any stopper, you might end up needing to seek medical help.”

Safe material: “Medical silicone is soft and gentle, but can only be used with water-based lube, while stainless steel is a bit harder, but can be used with silicone lubricant as well as for temperature play.”

Size matters: “Other tips are to go for a small or medium sized toy, as you generally can take less than you think you’re able to, to pick a toy with a tapered tip as it makes it easier to insert, and to think about if you’d like vibrations or not, as well as if you want it to be waterproof.”

Best anal sex toys to shop in 2026

Now that you’re prepared for the kind of thing to look out for, these are HuffPost and Sofie Roos’ recommendations for the best sex toys for anal to shop now. We’ve included recommendations for beginners and practised prostate players alike.

Best small butt plug for beginners

This weeny butt plug is the perfect size for those who have only ever taken a finger up there. It’s only slightly bigger than one of your digits, and has a tapered end so it won’t be too much to take while you’re getting the muscle used to penetration.

It’s non-vibrating, and has a strong suction cup so you can put it on any surface you like – and it’s comfortable to wear for long periods.

Small enough for beginners and comfortable enough for aficionados Tapered shape is great for beginners too Discreet and well-designed- Might not be enough for more practised players.

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