Neglect behind closed doors
This article is a part of our shared academic and social commitment to understanding the challenges of ageing in contemporary society. The study seeks to explore the psychological well-being, social adjustment, and emotional experiences of retired teachers during the later stages of life. During the course of the research, several moving narratives emerged that reflect the silent struggles of elderly individuals who, despite their immense contributions to education and society, experience loneliness, neglect, and emotional isolation after retirement. These experiences underline the growing need for greater awareness about geriatric mental health and the importance of family and community support for older persons. The following case study, with the identity suitably disguised to maintain confidentiality, is presented to encourage public discussion on elder neglect and its impact on mental health. Through this narrative, the authors hope to promote empathy, strengthen intergenerational relationships, and inspire collective efforts to ensure that retired teachers and other senior citizens live their later years with dignity, respect, and emotional security.
It is a story of a professor who was once the most respected teachers in his district. For nearly four decades, he taught Chemistry in various Degree Colleges of the valley and inspired thousands of students with his knowledge, discipline, and compassion. Generations of doctors, engineers, civil servants, and teachers proudly remembered him as the mentor who had shaped their lives. Students often visited his home for guidance, and he never charged a single rupee for extra coaching. His modest house contained a small library of thousands of books collected over a lifetime. His wife passed away a few years after his retirement, leaving him emotionally shattered. To avoid loneliness, he moved to the city to live with his only son, believing that family companionship would bring comfort during old age. Initially, everything appeared normal. His son assured relatives that his father would receive the best care. However, as months passed, subtle signs of neglect began to emerge. The professor’s room was shifted to the farthest corner of the house. It was a small room with a single bed, an old chair, and a window overlooking a boundary wall. His books remained packed in cartons because there was “no space” to arrange them. The library that had once been his greatest treasure slowly gathered dust. Whenever his daughter-in-law entered his room, she would........
