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Leon F Seltzer Phd

Leon F Seltzer Phd

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9 Ways to Get Others to Confide in You

In important relationships, you want people to comfortably open up to you.

28.08.2024 20

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

How to Bridge the Gap Between Fantasy and Reality

Distinguishing between the real and what feels real is harder than you think.

21.08.2024 8

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

12 Effective Ways to Cope With Frustration

Goal-oriented? Stressful obstacles are inevitable. Are you ready to tackle them?

07.08.2024 30

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5 Underrecognized Upsides of Self-Doubt

If you’re a “know-it-all,” complacency will impair your learning new things.

17.07.2024 30

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

7 Tips to Triumph Emotionally Over Cognitive Inertia

How do you best move forward when you’re feeling mentally and emotionally stuck?

26.06.2024 9

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

Projectitis: 5 Reasons Not to Be Obsessed With Productivity

Ambition is a good thing, until it obliterates all other considerations.

12.06.2024 10

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Can We Change Our Nature?

Whether we change naturally, or only with effort, is highly debatable.

29.05.2024 60

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Why Choose Long-Term Solutions to Resolve Tricky Dilemmas?

15.05.2024 100

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Are You Seduced by Immediate, Short-Term Solutions?

It’s crucial to distinguish solving a problem from actually resolving it.

09.05.2024 60

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When a Major Conflict With a Friend Is Unresolvable

What to do when a friend betrays your ideas of fairness and reciprocity.

24.04.2024 20

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

“Civil War”: Action Flick or Scary, Dystopian Wake-Up Call?

Disunited we fail: Are we literally headed toward sea-to-sea in-fighting?

11.04.2024 20

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

Does Your Partner Really Want to Control You?

A partner’s frustrating, overbearing behavior may have little to do with intent.

03.04.2024 20

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Parents, Scared Children, and Accidental Emotional Abuse

Most emotional abusers must learn to think not moralistically but empathically.

18.03.2024 20

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

How Parents Gaslight Their Children

When adults minimize or neglect a child’s distress, they feel invalidated.

13.03.2024 10

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

The Evolution of Lying: As We Mature, so Does Our Lying

“Evolved” dishonesty is far less egocentric than the more naive, juvenile kind.

21.02.2024 20

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

The Unpredictable, Borderline Mother Can Handicap Growth

Borderlines deny their child’s separate reality, unwittingly gaslighting them.

08.02.2024 10

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

Silence as Communication Isn’t Always Golden

It all depends on the situation either to embrace silence or shun it.

24.01.2024 10

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Leon F Seltzer Phd

4 Benefits of Remaining Calm When You’re Criticized

There are crucial reasons to welcome—rather than resist—criticism.

10.01.2024 9

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Five Powerful Solutions for Neediness

How much approval and validation do you need from your partner to feel okay?

13.12.2023 30

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Six Key Reasons to Avoid Feeling Needy and Dependent

Needfully lavishing praise on someone is unlikely to get you into their heart.

06.12.2023 8

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