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The day after deleting Facebook

The day after deleting Facebook

I hadn’t realised how difficult kicking the Facebook addiction would be. Or how much borderline aggression it would attract from my Facebook ‘friends’

05.03.2025 5

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C Y Gopinath

What to do before swiping left

Years later, when words have run dry and you sleep in separate rooms, will you wonder what you should have done differently when you met?

26.02.2025 10

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Why it’s time to delete Facebook

I will delete Facebook on March 1. My world will become smaller and easier to manage, with a few genuine friends rather than a thousand faceless ones

19.02.2025 10

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Reflections on a little faecal matter

Why do parents shrink from teaching their kids how to clean their bottoms? Maybe we need to deep dive into the Indian notions of purity and pollution

12.02.2025 10

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One day they’ll turn you into a cow

When you turn 60, you’ll be retired and put to pasture. But science is now showing that retirement can lead to cognitive decline and an earlier death

05.02.2025 10

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When enough is really too much

We live lives of too much. Too many clothes, too many shoes, more food than we can eat—and five times more toothpaste than we need. And there’s a...

28.01.2025 20

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The time at the time of the chime

India is 2,933 km from west to east, wide enough for the stars to be out in Kolkata when it is sunset in Mumbai. Anyone know the exact time?

22.01.2025 10

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How many islands do you see?

History talks about Bombay’s seven islands. But the Portuguese saw only four, while the British saw two. The real number will surprise you

15.01.2025 10

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Can a grandmaster wear a dhoti?

Dress codes are designed to tell you that you are not one of a kind, and don’t you get uppity. A dress code is how you are kept in your place One...

08.01.2025 9

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A few big things about small talk

It’s a moment of epiphany to realise that mankind’s problem is not how to end a conversation but why start it in the first place Most human...

31.12.2024 3

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Nightmare on the Virar Fast

Six persons per square metre is the norm. Mumbai’s locals carry 16 at rush hour. I learnt what this means when I boarded the Virar Fast Mumbai’s...

24.12.2024 4

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What’s the sound of 7.6 billion SMSes?

They bombard their customers with useless messages daily. It’s an epidemic where everyone shouts and no one hears anyone Hundreds of Indian...

17.12.2024 5

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How not to treat Yuval Noah Harari

The bookshop had planned a luminous evening of conversation between a beloved star and a visionary author. Here’s what happened Artificial...

10.12.2024 5

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A prophet, in his own words

Among ancient hard drives, I found a glitchy file with words apparently translated from the original Aramaic words of Jesus The Gospel of Peace of...

03.12.2024 10

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In search of Harrison’s lost guitar

In 1968, George Harrison gave a guitar to a Bandra family. Not realising that the musical instrument was a gift, they kept it in their store room...

26.11.2024 4

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The man who did two things well

Can the law stop a person from being multi-faceted? How many skills should one have in a world where skills become obsolete overnight? Recognising...

20.11.2024 20

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On becoming comfortably numb

We turn the page and move on now, from wars, brutality, rapes, genocides, lies. How can we bring outrage back into our lives? Unlike anger, which...

13.11.2024 5

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How we got grief all wrong

Western psychology tells us we pass through five stages when we grieve. But there’s more to grief than meets the eye I find myself asking questions...

05.11.2024 4

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The secret lives of the rupee

In which I finally understand why a great country like India has such a weak currency and why the rupee never shows up at forex bureaus Diving deep...

29.10.2024 3

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The problem with never-say-die

In today’s battered, brutal, world, there are enough people who would like to just leave the party. But society won’t let you die in peace, even if...

22.10.2024 4

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Letters to Gary Engelberg, RIP

How an intense email exchange lasting five days with a man I had never met, profoundly influenced two decades of my work Gary Engelberg, former...

15.10.2024 6

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And you do exactly what, sir?

Most people believe their worth is defined by what they do from 9 to 5. What if you’re one of those youth who does nothing all day? According to...

08.10.2024 3

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Kamala’s Chatpata Curry House

They say the White House will smell of curry if Kamala Harris becomes the president. Will someone tell me why that is such a bad thing? I was not...

01.10.2024 3

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When five seconds is too long

When you drop food on the floor or the sidewalk, how long is it safe to pick up and eat? Turns out dirt has a lot going for it The flatter and...

24.09.2024 20

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The harm three monkeys can do

You can’t act to stop a genocide because you can’t use the word ‘genocide’ until the entire community has been wiped out Those in power teach...

19.09.2024 20

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Where do you keep your cache?

Why does it take you hours to find anything but a Google search can pull out what you want in nanoseconds? Can we learn their hacks? Behind my work...

10.09.2024 8

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Is my health policy a lemon?

What if you bought a health insurance policy—and then learnt that you could not make any claim for two years? Would you feel cheated? If you have a...

03.09.2024 10

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Another COVID vaccine, whoopee!

Should you get yourself the new COVID-19 booster shot? You’re a big fan of science, but how much do you trust Big Pharma? About 70.57 per cent of...

27.08.2024 9

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It’s just a little fever, no worries

A very sick man is spreading his germs in your house, touching things, shedding pathogens everywhere. Would you gently evict? A part of you asks...

21.08.2024 4

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Who am I talking with, please?

I couldn’t think of a topic for this week’s column, so I decided to brainstorm with someone. It was not a conversation I was ready for ChatGPT’s...

14.08.2024 3

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Who was more generous, DS or JJ?

It was another Mumbai party and the discussion was about wealth, greed and generosity. Two legendary philanthropes were indicted Philanthropes...

06.08.2024 3

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People with gold in their veins

Very few people in the world have the rare blood group known as Bombay Blood. Most are in India. 30 of them met last Sunday Thirty strangers from a...

31.07.2024 3

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Joy and nightmare on the highway

I used to recommend a cab company to travellers. I now advise them to walk to their destination rather than take a taxi from the firm CabBazar’s...

24.07.2024 6

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