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The ‘Four Sixes’ Dating Trend Is Everything That’s Wrong With Modern Dating

Dating coaches say the viral checklist reflects a culture obsessed with superficial standards, not genuine compatibility.

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I’ve read and written about countless dating trends in recent years, but I must say, the “Four Sixes” dating trend is one of the most egregious. Rooted in superficiality and unrealistic standards, it’s a surefire way to remain single for life. Although I’m starting to think that’s the entire point of this trend…(which, by the way, is likely more of a social-media-driven idea created strictly for shock value than actual application). 

What Is the ‘Four Sixes’ Dating Trend?

To put it bluntly, the “Four Sixes” dating trend requires male partners to be 6 feet tall, earn a 6-figure salary, have 6-pack abs, and be 6 inches or more in length. Now, if you ask me, this “trend” is more of a pushback on or call-out of the ridiculously shallow standards we set for each other in modern dating. Perhaps it’s more of a “parody” trend than an actual dating........

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