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5 Habits of Couples With Amazing Sex Lives

There are many ways to keep intimacy alive and well. Here are five habits of couples who never seem to lose their sexual spark.

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As you progress further into a long-term relationship, it’s common to go through “dry spells” or stressful periods without sex. Thankfully, there are many ways to keep intimacy alive and well, even after years of being together. Here are five habits of couples who never seem to lose their sexual spark.

1. They Don’t Take Each Other For Granted

Couples who truly appreciate each other and their sexual connection typically keep the spark alive for longer than others.

“They give real intention and attention to their erotic connection instead of assuming it will just stay good on its own,” says Gabby Jimmerson, certified couples and sex therapist. “Sexual chemistry responds to effort; it’s not self-sustaining. Couples who keep the spark stay curious about each other and make space for it rather than slipping into autopilot and crossing their fingers it’ll happen on its own.”

2. They Choose Each Other........

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