‘I was very fearful of my parents’: new research shows how parents can use coercive control on their children
In Australia, there is growing recognition that children and young people are not just witnesses to domestic, family and sexual violence, but victim-survivors in their own right.
While we are getting better at understanding how coercive control operates in adult relationships – particularly where men use it against women – much less attention has been given to how children experience this kind of abuse, especially when it comes from a parent or caregiver.
New research interviewing teenage victim-survivors reveals how parents can coercively control their children under the guise of parental discipline.
Coercive control is a pattern of abusive behaviours used to instil fear, dominate or isolate someone over time. It can include:
physical violence
sexual abuse
surveillance
threats
humiliation
limiting access to money
technology-facilitated abuse
animal abuse, among many other abusive tactics.
Focusing largely on adult victim-survivors, research has found experiences of coercive control can have cumulative and long-lasting negative impacts.
Studies of children show how coercive control can erode a child’s mental health, self-esteem and sense of safety.
For young people, within the context of the family, coercive control may be perpetrated by parents, step-parents, caregivers, siblings and other family members. The tactics used may mirror those seen in adult contexts.
But there are different circumstances at play for children. They are........
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