The right kind of competition can be a direct path to happiness.

Healthy competition and toxic competition can look identical.

Workplace envy is a silent driver of anxiety, isolation, and depression.

If you are like us, you probably spent several recent evenings watching an exceptionally fun (mostly) 2026 Winter Olympics. Tara’s son was obsessed with the spoken word track that Ilia Malinin skated to. As a result, he repeated the phrase, "The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing" at least 7,000 times while they were on a family vacation. Ed’s son was more interested in watching people go downhill at high velocities.

All the feel-good moments got us wondering: why does this kind of competition make us feel so happy? And why do other competitions feel so awful? And how does competition affect our overall well-being? Curious social scientists that we are, we decided to do a little investigating.

It turns out that researchers have quite a lot of interesting things to say about competition, especially at work.

Competition has a way of bringing people together. Inter-team competition tends to knit individuals into a community with a shared goal. This shifts attention away from internal differences and negative individual comparisons. Instead, the focus is the recognition that the entire team, win or lose, faces the same fate. Victory depends on supporting one another, which creates a sense of trust and lasting bonds.

This support manifests through peer coaching and mutual improvement. When there is trust, friendly internal competition pushes teammates to improve their game. This is sometimes called “team development competition” and it takes participants well beyond what they could achieve on their own.

We do not need to be Olympians, or even athletes, to enjoy these benefits. In the working world, where we sometimes call this “coopetition (cooperative competition),” it can create a learning-oriented mindset in which friendly rivals can help each other grow. Coopetition strengthens subscription to organizational goals, diminishing more selfish motivations.

Healthy peer pressure increases the quality of everyone’s work as colleagues see themselves in the same boat. This differs from zero-sum thinking, which can lead to more toxic forms of competition. Zero-sum competition does not allow for a bigger pie, so rewards are strictly limited. One person’s success comes at the expense of others. You see this in workplaces that use forced ranking evaluation systems and scarce bonus and promotion opportunities.

This kind of competition can get ugly. Rivalry leads to envy and sabotage. Knowledge is a form of currency so insights are rarely shared. Competition metastasizes into other areas of work, including managerial attention and access to business opportunities. Leaders become political figures who maneuver to increase their control over resources at the cost of other teams.

Perhaps you are someone who thrives in these types of environments. If you are excited by the challenge of zero-sum competition, our guess is that you are more focused on the prospect of winning than the fear of losing. Perhaps this is because the threat of losing seems far into the future so you have plenty of time to improve. You may believe that you’ve got the tools you need to win out over competitive threats and the grit (or emotional stability) to stay calm and focused under pressure.

If so, we salute you and gently ask that you play nice with those who are not wired this way.

Because for others, zero-sum competition leads to suffering. It prompts “avoidance motivation,” or fear of losing. This in turn leads to status anxiety and chronic stress. The pressure of competition becomes resource depleting, which exaggerates the sense that they don’t “have what it takes” to win. The results can be poor physical and mental health, as these environments have been linked to anxiety, frustration, exhaustion, and even depression. Workplace envy creates a sense of isolation and inferiority, so employees feel devalued and unsupported.

Channel Your Inner Olympian: Make Competition Fun Again

So how do we bring the magic of the Olympics into our everyday life and work? Lean into coopetition. Clearly, organizations that foster coopetition can boost performance tremendously, but only with two key ingredients in place; otherwise, they risk harming it.​ It is a very tricky balance, much like synchronized ice dancing.

First, there needs to be a culture of trust. Colleagues need to know that the support they give to peers will be reciprocated rather than exploited. Just as importantly, positive sum thinking needs to be shared throughout the team. This means that every win benefits the community and can be celebrated. Root for your team's bigger pie, where everyone's growth fuels collective wins. Value is created through successes so every accomplishment increases the size of the pie rather than digging into others’ shares.

Picture it at work: colleagues high-fiving after mutual coaching, not sabotage. That's Olympic-level happiness that is rooted in belonging, not burnout.​

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