Lately, I’ve noticed many silver-haired couples walking hand-in-hand down sidewalks, along boardwalks, and following trails. Most seem to have a lilt in their steps and sparkly eyes, almost like they’re in love.

I hope they are. I am. After three plus decades of marriage and five years of post-divorce online dating, I, too, feel a lightness and sparkle. It’s seeped into my being over the past five years, and I’m more than a little goo-goo.

Just in time, too. His was the last profile I looked at before pulling the plug on OK Cupid. I needed a break, but my sister wanted to see how online dating works. During my demo, we found my guy.

He and I made plans to meet the following week. One of my goals for a new relationship is to be known and accepted as I am. Also, I want to know and accept my partner fully as he is. I intend to build a healthy relationship. But how will I know we're a good fit?

After my marriage crumbled, I........

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