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College gives young adults a chance to practice independence while support is still available.

Solving problems for college students can keep them from building confidence in their own judgment.

Building their own support network teaches students how to seek help and form meaningful relationships.

Managing their own responsibilities and setbacks helps students build independence and resilience.

“College is exciting but now I need to learn to survive.” said Sabrina, an incoming first-year college student. I could sense the anxiety and excitement in her voice. She wanted to be independent to make her own decisions. Yet, she also realized all the responsibilities she would have to take on.

I want to focus on what parents go through this transition. For nearly two decades, you may have helped architect the conditions for your child’s success, but when college begins, that responsibility shifts to them.

As a professor and leadership coach, I believe that college provides a valuable period of supported independence. While students have greater freedom, they also have a vast support system including access to academic advisors, health services, and counseling. Here are three shifts you can make to support their transition.

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