Couple getting married

Finally, it’s happening; the “wait until your late 20s, you’ll go to 15 weddings a year” people are being proven right.

Joy! I love love, and I consider myself privileged to be invited to anyone’s wedding (after all, they’re not cheap and are rarely easy). I adore all my friends’ partners, which is rare, and am thrilled they’re getting married.

Still, I keep noticing a trend, even among my most feminist, keenly socially active straight mates; the women are doing all the work, and the work never ends.

60% of respondents to a Wedshed poll said brides-to-be still do the lion’s share of the work. A site entry by Brides & Grooms Direct teaches a beleaguered fiancée “how to get a reluctant groom involved” in their big day.

A Redditor puts words to a sentiment I’ve heard too often from exasperated friends: “I’m probably lucky that he’s helping at all, but he truly thinks he’s putting in equal work by........

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