Dear Auntie,
I am 24 years old and recently divorced after a short, immature marriage to a relative on my mother’s side of the family. My family is highly educated and has supported me completely. I am currently doing my postgraduate and preparing for the public service commission exam.

Five months ago, I met U*, a 26-year-old medical doctor, who also belongs to my city. He is a medical officer and preparing for the commission exams too. He is mature, loyal, soft-hearted and emotionally sincere. We share a deep understanding and he accepted me fully, despite knowing my past.

U is facing strong pressure from his family to proceed with a watta satta [reciprocal bride exchange] marriage. This pressure has started affecting his focus and mental well-being. As a doctor, he is also concerned about hereditary health issues and wants to marry outside the family.

He has told me that he cannot commit right now, because he promised his family........

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