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Roni’s Remedy: Giving me the ick, bumming around, and extra credit

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20.12.2025

I have been dating someone, and they occasionally bring up their ex. I get discussing past relationships, but I am getting weirded out. I don’t need to know all the details and I don’t really care. How do I tell them this? – Move On Already

Move On Already – Be upfront about it and tell them that you don’t want to hear about their ex anymore. The good news is you’re only dating so if they get upset and break things off with you it’s not like you were in a long-term committed relationship. And you would seriously be dodging a bullet because talking about exes is a huge red flag. They obviously haven’t healed from their past relationship, and they might need to take some time to do some work on that. Just be honest and say that it makes you uncomfortable to hear about their ex and you would like to work on your current relationship with them instead of living in the past. They will........

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