Born unwelcome
Many claim daughters are a blessing.
They gush about how much they love their sisters. They insist women deserve respect. But the truth hits the moment — day zero — a girl is born.
No fireworks, no mithai, no praise, no photos, no phone calls — just silence, sometimes laced with regret and disappointment.
And in rural districts like Torghar (K-P) or Kech (Balochistan), she might not even be registered. It's like she didn't arrive at all.
The air turns heavy when it's 'just a girl'.
The in-laws' mood curdles. The same people who cheered your wedding now weigh your worth.
The mother-in-law rattles off how many grandsons her other daughters-in-law have brought into the family. Expect taunts, quiet snubs or worse if you fail to deliver sons.
Boys get new clothes, toys and gold; girls often get hand-me-downs or knockoffs. Aqeeqahs and other traditional feasts for baby girls are often........





















Toi Staff
Gideon Levy
Tarik Cyril Amar
Sabine Sterk
Stefano Lusa
Mort Laitner
Mark Travers Ph.d
Ellen Ginsberg Simon
Gilles Touboul
John Nosta