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Love in the Time of Dating Apps: Gen Z Couples Share How They  Found Love From a Right Swipe

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20.07.2025

“He didn’t try to fix me. He just sat with me in my chaos. That meant everything.”

That’s how 22-year-old Tanu describes the moment she knew she had found someone who truly saw her. Not a perfect love story. Just a real one.

City life in India doesn’t leave much room for romance. Dating often begins with a swipe and ends with a ghost. Between commutes, deadlines, and buzzing phones, love often arrives quietly—when we least expect it.

For Gen Z, it slips in through unlikely doorways: a playlist that feels just right, a photo that stops the scroll, a message that actually says something.

In a country still steeped in arranged marriages and family approval, this generation is building love on their own terms—slow, honest, and rooted in real connection.

The stories of Karan and Tanu, and Rohit (name changed) and Anaya (name changed), may not be epic, but they capture something rare: how Gen Z is choosing love that feels right, not just looks right.

How acceptance became a safe space for this couple

Karan, 23, a sales consultant based in Kolkata, never expected to find more than a passing acquaintance when he rejoined Bumble in late 2023. “I was not actively swiping, but when I came across Tanu’s profile, something pulled me in. There was this picture where half her face was hidden behind her phone. I don’t know why, but I just felt I had to know her,” he tells The Better India.

In a country still steeped in arranged marriages and family approval, Gen Z is building love on their own terms; Picture courtesy: Shutterstock (For representational purposes only)

The oddity of that image, its mystery, stirred a curiosity that felt different from the usual casual flick through profiles. Karan’s story is not about love at first sight in the traditional sense, it is about a gentle intrigue that grew steadily into something much more intense.

Tanu, also from Kolkata and working in hospitality, joined the app during a particularly difficult period in her life. “Mentally and physically, I was not in a great space,” she reflects candidly. “I was not even looking for love. I just wanted someone to talk to, some company to feel less alone.”

Their first meeting was nothing spectacular, yet it left an unforgettable impression on her. “I talked........

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