Ever leave a situation or conversation and regret the way you acted? Ever found yourself wondering, “Why did I say that, or act that way?” You’re not alone! We can all look back on things we said or did that were not the best representation of who we really are, or at least who we want to be.  

What we want, in all circumstances, is something called ethical stability. That is, the ability to remain stable and balanced, acting and reacting in line with our personal ethics regarding good behavior. Ethical stability results when we act in conformity with our internal set of personal beliefs and standards, rather than allowing external circumstances to incite unethical behavior. Ethical stability manifests as a high level of self-control. 

But even the most ethical people can lose control of themselves when certain unethical toxins take hold in their souls. These toxins dilute the very convictions meant to provide stability in situations that tempt us to react badly. We would all do well to recognize and guard ourselves against these insidious invaders, which, if allowed, will burrow deeply........

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