Three of the most essential elements in a mentoring relationships—truthfully, any relationship—are trust, communication, and mutual respect. They are the foundation required for building an enduring professional relationship.

But what happens when your mentor, who once provided valuable insights and guidance, suddenly becomes unresponsive? Or suddenly starts gossiping about you? This is when your mentor turns into a tormentor. It’s a disorienting experience that can leave you feeling abandoned and untethered. Here’s how to navigate this difficult situation and come out stronger.

Before jumping to conclusions, it’s important to consider the possible reasons behind your mentor’s silence. Life happens; personal issues, work pressures, or health problems can cause anyone to become temporarily unavailable. Reflect on your recent interactions. Have there been any signs of frustration or disengagement? Understanding the context can help you approach the situation with empathy and clarity. Understand that not everyone........

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