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The restlessness many people feel toward a new chapter is worth paying attention to.

We often stay where we are because we have never given ourselves permission to want something different.

We can be proud of where we have been and still be ready for what comes next.

Many of us eventually reach a point where, despite building a successful career, achieving important milestones, and checking all the traditional boxes, we find ourselves longing for something deeper. We begin to question the stories we’ve been carrying about success and whether we’re still aligned with the path we’re on. We may wonder: Is this still where I’m meant to be? What’s missing? Is this what I want? Is there another chapter waiting for me? What’s next?

In a recent conversation with executive coach and keynote speaker Marissa Teeter, we talked about the realities of pivoting after success in one field, how our desire for certainty often keeps us from betting on ourselves, and how to embrace a second summit. She encourages people to think about whether they’re truly where they want to be or simply moving through life according to expectations they’ve adopted over time (Life by Design, 2026).

I’d invite you to pause for a moment and ask yourself: Am I investing my energy in what really matters, or just what I feel I “should” pursue? What do I want to feel more of in my life? What do I want to feel less of?

We are allowed to let our definition of success evolve. What felt meaningful five or 10 years ago may not feel aligned today. Maybe your version of success once looked like titles and achievements. Today, perhaps it’s more spaciousness in your calendar and........

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